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am I a strange girl ?
some of my male friends said that they dare not get closer to me although they want to be. I thought I am always a easy and simple girl. why they have that idea on me ? I am a ordinary girl as others, I ask for little and easy goning. I don't care whether my friends rich or not but I value hardworking. among so many friends I have several intimate ones, we talked about every thing happened around us and exchanged ideas on the books and movies we like. Ｉam not unusual at all.
one of my teachers told us that boys always choose the girl that they can control. maybe I am too independent and dislike the life that under control by others. live alone in this city with neither kith nor kin here, I just have to be independent and deal with all kind of things by myself . so Iam able to do lot of things,such as repair the locks, cook food. I repair every broken thing of my own. when I was a student and just put study atop of every thing.now, I am still reasonable to face up all the things that I encountered.
Iam confident in myself, I am full of courage. I am positive. the most important thing is that I am a human being. I have feelings too. it's not mean that I don't need other's care, just because I have to be strong enough. sometimes I was as weak as a little birld in the heavy rain, I cried a lot but no one konws. no matter how sad I was, I will wear a big smile to face ever body and ever thing.
That's me. am I a strange girl?
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- Reply lonelyme
- To be honest, a lot of men lacks confidence in themselves. They need to be in control in a love relationship and in the family. Every man wants a submissive girl. The self esteem of a man is very important and above everything. You do not have to worry because there are also men who likes girls who are independent and not sticky all the time. A man would love you no matter what your attitude is. He will find lot of excuses if he don't have confidence or he don't love you in heart.
- Reply Jessico
- Most men have the will of possession, they need their women supporting him rather than superior to him. For us, even we are independent, but while chossing our men, we should try to balance our attitude to provide more respect to them
- Reply sophia_2011
- Man does not think you need them if you are always strong. also sometimes they are not confident therefore some guys choose girl who knows when to show her weakness.man need girls to look up.if you are too strong then you may have to look down them. Hehe. That is my opinion
- Reply snowflying
- i always think whether girl or boy,woman or man, only we are ourselves,we can be other's love. only we make ourselves well, we can make other's love done too. i don't think your are a strange girl,my friend.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- lonelyme: To be honest, a lot of men lacks confidence in themselves. They need to be in control in a love relationship and in the family. Every man wants a submoh, he might think that Iam too good for him, That's good
- Reply moli
- In some boys' eyes, your independence and capable show that you are strong and tough. So those boys are unwilling to close to you.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- Jessico: Most men have the will of possession, they need their women supporting him rather than superior to him. For us, even we are independent, but while chohaha if I am under control I will become mad
- Reply lijuanandrea
- sophia_2011: Man does not think you need them if you are always strong. also sometimes they are not confident therefore some guys choose girl who knows when to sho
I never look down upon anyone, maybe my mind is too simple to consider all of this
- Reply lijuanandrea
- snowflying: i always think whether girl or boy,woman or man, only we are ourselves,we can be other's love. only we make ourselves well, we can make other's love dit's so hard to know people well
- Reply lijuanandrea
- moli: In some boys' eyes, your independence and capable show that you are strong and tough. So those boys are unwilling to close to you.u know I don't afraid of bugs,my colleague said I was not a girl
- Reply redapple2
- Perhaps you don't want to bother others, you just want to do all the things orderly by yourself. You are so positive, independent, excellent that people think you are almost invincible. Therefore, you haven't given males chances to help you and increase your friendship. That's my opinion. To be honest, we are alike to some degree.
- Reply crazyman168168
- U know the world is consist of diffent type human being,because there are a lot of people with different life enviroment,different life aim, different job, different friend, different hobby, at all different attitude and opinion. So i always believe that people can be understood easily and hard at the same time. At last, i believe there must be a boy waiting for you and will love you heartly, Good luck to you.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- redapple2: Perhaps you don't want to bother others, you just want to do all the things orderly by yourself. You are so positive, independent, excellent that peop
- Reply lijuanandrea
- crazyman168168: U know the world is consist of diffent type human being,because there are a lot of people with different life enviroment,different life aim, differentthanks，hope I can bring good news some day
- Reply ghq0317
- you are not a strange girl. but you have a independent life style.i have a advice: you don't need to express enough stronge in front of the others. when you want to cry, you cry.when you want to smile ,you smile. sometimes you could ask for some help from others,don't do everything by yourself.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- ghq0317: you are not a strange girl. but you have a independent life style.i have a advice: you don't need to express enough stronge in front of the others. wh indeed I cryed a lot, but no body knows and no one comforts me
- Reply snowflying
- lijuanandrea: it's so hard to know people welldon't say so ,my friend. only we hold a hot honest heart, i think other's heart can open to us too.
