Register Login
DioEnglish.com Return Index

lijuanandrea's Space http://www.dioenglish.com/?3668 [Favorites] [Copy] [Shares] [RSS]

Blogs

What will you marry for? Money or love

388 views. 2011-11-30 15:54

I am one of the post 80s who is burdening a lot both from career and family. I feel heavy in my heart and head that I could hardly breathe freely when they push me to the topic of marriage and housing. Don’t tell me to marry a rich guy since you know that the rich posts 80s are not rich themselves. I will certainly choose the one that bear the same situation with me. We can fight together and exchange our ideas on the same thing after a tiring day.

 

In life, we do have something that you cannot confide to your parents since they wouldn’t understand you and we might increase their worries. It’s hard to find a right person as you wanted, but in many occasion the one you find cannot satisfy your parents~ Not good enough as they imagined, not typically handsome, not invariably rich, not smart and experienced~~~~~.oh, god ! pls make a man for me specially that fits my parents taste and my favor at the same time. 

 

I am an easy girl and don’t make me difficult. I know that all the so called inferior aspects you picked out do exist and they are problems I need to handle later. It’s kind of you to think about me but pls don’t give me so much pressure.     

 

I will search for true love and will never give up for money. I don’t afraid of hardship from life but I am afraid of cheating others and was cheated by others. I will hold my head up high to live the rest of my life and will never to be the slave of money. I am a person worth of true love and I will go for it and find the one that worth of my love.

 

Post comment Comment (10 replies)

Reply gxl003204 2011-11-30 17:06
wish you find your Mr.Right soon~God bless you~
Reply sunnyv 2011-11-30 19:37
Perhaps I am not a suitable person to comment on this as a man, but I have heard from many girls suffering from marriage pressures. You have revealed the mental and emotional sufferings of most the post 80's young girls. I think most parents really don't understand the world as it is today and they are being unrealistic in demanding that girls find the so called right man. Which girl don't want to marry a handsome, rich and nice man? Is it so easy? Most of the good ones are already taken and how many girls have the best qualities to find the top man? Most of the men they know only have a small regular salary, ordinary outlook, ordinary education and average earning abilities or have difficult parents who thinks their sons are solid gold. Why can't two ordinary people who love each other get married and build their own future? Two people working and saving together can  be a stong saving power and at the same time enjoy good family life. All these pressures from parents are causing girls to remain single. When are the parents going to wake up to reality and be more practical? Girls of marriage age continue to suffer until all these difficulties are resolved.
Reply snowflying 2011-11-30 20:03
dear girl, love and money surely is our facing sometimes, but love is love, money is money, if you say there is some relationship between, i only tell you my ecperience from my life or love or money experience. when i'm a girl like you, no any money, but i love my husband's honest love to me, he is surely a true honest man, let me believe i can lead a happy life with him in my lifetime. when my daughter born years ago, till daughter's  3-4 years old, our family had paid all debt for my marriage, because then my salary and my husband's salary is very less. we feel happy. with time's passing by year by year, we are earning more money with our hard work and some way to investment, now my family have a good economic status, at least we needn't worry about our consume and spending. dear girl, my story maybe not suitable to nowaday's girls,just as at your age and current material society, but in marriage, i think, love is the first, forever. you need consider what a man to live with him, not how mush money you have now. to a young boy, nearly less boys have so rich family indeed, but if you are lucky, you can seek a excellent boy who have a invisible ability to earn more including money certainly.  parents's advice is our considerable, they love you most in this world. if no big gap , you should get their admit to your boyfriend or future husband. a blessed marriage will be more happy, no parents don't hope their kids happy in this world, merely sometimes a bit different viewpoints between two generation. but the happy wish is the same. everyone has their love in this world, God has arranged well for you guys.i believe you will find your Mr.right in soon future,good luck, dear girl.
Reply loly90 2011-11-30 21:23
support you with my hands and feets
Reply samscri 2011-12-1 02:49
The first thing about marriage is you have to be clear that what do you marry for?
Reply lijuanandrea 2011-12-1 09:00
sunnyv: Perhaps I am not a suitable person to comment on this as a man, but I have heard from many girls suffering from marriage pressures. You have revealed
we live in a different age as our parents,they were arranged to marry others, so they want to arrange our lives. but they ignored that the world is quite different now. at their age, they shared a same house with a big family, why we have to buy a new house when we get married.
Reply lijuanandrea 2011-12-1 09:07
snowflying: dear girl, love and money surely is our facing sometimes, but love is love, money is money, if you say there is some relationship between, i only tell
thank you much, I believe I am right on thihs matter no matter how my parents pursuade me, I know every thing of myself but they don't. it's takes time for us to know a person well. I will not hurry to that. wish me good luck
Reply lijuanandrea 2011-12-1 09:08
loly90: support you with my hands and feets
thanks for your support
Reply lijuanandrea 2011-12-1 09:09
samscri: The first thing about marriage is you have to be clear that what do you marry for?
of course i did .love ,the true love
Reply Davidlam2005 2011-12-1 12:41
who will you marry with,what kind of man you love.is your call.not your parents.

facelist doodle 涂鸦板

You need to login first Login | Register

每周一篇英文日志,坚持一年,你的英语能力将发生质的飞跃!

DioEnglish.com --- A Nice Place to Practice English and Make New Friends!

English Writing, English Blog, English Diary, 英语角, 英语写作, 英文写作, 英语交流, 英语日记, 英语周记, 英文日记, 英语学习, 英语写作网, 英语作文大全

Website Rules|Contact Us|茶文化|英文博客网 ( 京ICP备06064874号-2 )

GMT+8, 2024-5-15 12:58

Powered by DioEnglish.com

© 2008-2013 China English Blogs

Top