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Can Long Distance Love Bare Fruit?
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Facing with long distance love, many people didn’t know how to deal with it. ‘To be or not to be, that is a question’ but, as far as I am concerned, long distance love can not have a good end in the long run because of so many obstacles.
I n the first place, the change of distance in reality leads to the change of distance between hearts. Although there are many marvelous poems and novels praise long distance love, but in this explosion society of material, nothing will happen like that. Before, the relationship between lovers can become more intimate for their frequent communication: The deep looking into `the lover’s eyes; the sweet wards of caring each other from the heart of hearts. But now, the distance stop every thing, lovers stay alone, trancing without a single word. Only the darkness in the sky with an empty room companies you. With time goes by, the distance between tow hearts become father and father.
Furthermore, long distance love can raise a lot of problems. You may say that love means giving. Lovers are willing to do anything for their beloved one, no matter how long the distance is. But have a second thinking; the change of distance can change everything. Firstly, you can’t meet your beloved one as before even you really want to. Secondly, you don’t know how your lover is going on.
Thirdly, you can’t share happiness and sorrows as before. Maybe you can call each other or meet on the internet, but in face a machine how can you express your feelings? All the words can not compare with a deep feeling looking or a kiss. Besides, you need put more time and energy than before. At the end of the month, the only thing impress you is the long list of telephone bills and your void heart. Maybe you are willing travel to see each other, but how many times can this kind of thing happen in a year? Facing these things, both of you will become tired. All problems hold the development of love; you are stopped and can’t move.
Last but not the least, the change of distance can bring to the end of the relationship. Because the circumstance changed, people will affect by it and also the people around them can affect them too. They will face new temptations, who can tell they will never change in front of money, power, and beauty? The change of value lead to the change that they have no common words and similarities. There is an old Chinese saying goes;’ a single day apart seems like three years’’ no body can stay without change. Day after day, they will become a stranger seems never meet. Look at the people around us, most of them break up in the first year after the apart, in the second year, most of them find new lovers. With time goes by, breaking up is so common that they even didn’t feel hurts.
From what I have said, you may have a sense that long distance love can not go through the test of time. Don’t waste your time and youth anymore and just waiting for nothing but breakup. Don’t hesitated or you will become heartbroken, give up is another kind of love.
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Post comment Comment (6 replies)
- Reply Tange
- it is no easy to get the lover in the big city ;
it is obvious that the one who well- educated would become the more hard to get marry ..
too many consideration make the love become more complicated ...
- Reply lijuanandrea
- Tange: it is no easy to get the lover in the big city ;maybe, this article was wrriten at my colleague time, last night i found at one of my friends' RENREN,he collected it, so i publish here.
it is obvious that the one who well- educated would become the more hard to get marry ..
too many c
- Reply Tange
- lijuanandrea: maybe, this article was wrriten at my colleague time, last night i found at one of my friends' RENREN,he collected it, so i publish here.
i knew a girl , she also lived in shenzhen ,and borned in Hubei; she said that she has 3 goals in her life ;
1> be become a mother , with a baby
2> to be a well-skilled interpreter ,
3>to be a writer , and one nice article can be known by public .
- Reply lijuanandrea
- Tange:to be frank，I don't have any goals in my life，do the right thing at thei knew a girl , she also lived in shenzhen ,and borned in Hubei; she said that she has 3 goals in her life ;
1> be become a mother , with a
right time and enjoy each day is enough for me。
