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Don’t Judge Students by Their Parents

Hot 2642 views. 2015-6-14 22:54

When we talking about teacher, a bright image suddenly appears in my mind and teachers are labeled as the greatest people under heaven. It is true in my opinion, because a good teacher can affect a person’s whole life. And I am lucky to had lots of caring, kind and responsible teachers.

 

Before I came to Shenzhen, I never thought that not every student has the chance and right to choose their own school as they like. In my home town, we can go any school as long as you are in the age. Not matter where you live, not matter your parents owns a house or not, have a job or not, everyone is equal to go to school.

 

But here in Shenzhen, what I am seeing is beyond my nerve. This is the true story of my colleague. My colleague owns a house in Shenzhen somewhere, the house is large and comfortable, she said that she never turn on the air-condition, she didn’t even install one, because it is very cool in her house, wind can blow through her room, what she need to do is just open the window.   

 

The problem arise later when her daughter have to go to school, but in their reign, there is no good primary school in her opinion, so she decided to sell her big house and to buy a new one which provides school position. She went to find a house every day after work, and finally she got one. When everything was ready, she invited us to her new house; it is located near a park, at the foot of a hill, on the first floor, very small one, she put a bed in the living room, and the dining room is outside the house in the front yard, she leave the best room to her daughter, because he room contains a window, there is a double deck bed, a desk for her to do homework. Next is her room, not big either, no window, just a bed for her and her husband, she made a book shell on the wall so that she can put something there. Her kitchen and water room is in the aisle between her house and another one, she told us that she asked someone to build a wall in front and behind the aisle, in that case, the space is enlarged a lot.

 

It is obvious that my colleague is quite proud of her work. Her daughter went to the school as she dreamed last year. But one day I heard that she went to school to have a talk with the headmaster. It was said that the head teacher in her daughter’s class didn’t allow other students to play with her daughter, and even talk with her. My colleague got very angry about this, she have a quarrel with the young teacher, she said that it was unreasonable to do such things to a little girl, it would affect the rest of her life, just because she didn’t want to sleep after lunch, and her daughter was asked to stand in the back of the classroom, she even asked to stand outside too. Later on, the young teacher told the headmaster that if my colleague’s little girl kept in her class, she would resign, let the headmaster chose.

 

The result is that, the teacher didn’t resign, and the girl still in the class, but went to headmaster’s office after lunch. You want to know what happened in the middle. I found out later, that my colleague sends a diamond necklace to the headmaster and the young teacher to make them shut up. My colleague said that almost every parent send gifts to teachers, because they are rich, they didn’t want their children were looked upon by others.

 

Then, I felt so lucky that most of my teachers are kind and caring me a lot. Although there were one or two teachers that treat me differently, I just knew it and tried not to be affected by them.

I just hope that teacher treat students equally. Don't judge studets by their parents. it's not easy to raise a child. 

Post comment Comment (5 replies)

Reply sunnyv 2015-6-15 12:09
The teacher mentioned does not even deserve to be a teacher.
How can a teacher be so biased and unforgiving to an innocent child. The headmaster is also at fault because he should have first censured the teacher with warnings, then if the parents feel grateful, it would be fine to accept a small gift but not a diamond necklace. In my city, the headmaster would have 3 years jail if he does anything like that.

Choosing a good school for children is what every parents wishes to do. It is also happening in our place with parents taking big moves just to enter a Band One good school. However, no money or connections are necessary here. No educator can take any monetary or social advantage.

It is certainly unacceptable to class students by their backgrounds. The stigma of being classified as inferior could linger on in the minds of children forever.  The school is a place for knowledge and education, not for competition or status attainment. Education is the movement from darkness to light.
Reply lijuanandrea 2015-6-15 14:23
sunnyv: The teacher mentioned does not even deserve to be a teacher.
How can a teacher be so biased and unforgiving to an innocent child. The headmaster is a ...
yes, we always think that school is a pure place, the social environment is much simple, but the truth is that unfairness is happened all the time because of some teachers, when i was in high school, all the students were devided in to new classes, my new head teacher treated us unequally, when we had competition in school, he didn't allow us to participate, but just arranged some of his former students to go, and the results was bad, i was some kind of happy that he made a wrong decesion, when i applied for the allowance, he didn't submmit my document to school, he told me that my score was less than the other girl , i showed my score to him, but it's no use at all. ten years passed, but i still remember this thing, i think one day when i meet him, i will tell him that without the allowance, i still graduated from college, but  the girl , never go to a college at all.
Reply sunnyv 2015-6-15 15:59
lijuanandrea: yes, we always think that school is a pure place, the social environment is much simple, but the truth is that unfairness is happened all the time bec ...
Agree. Yes, if you have the chance to meet that unfair teacher again, tell him that you needed that allowance which you unfairly denied to me, but nevertheless, I managed to graduate on my own. Those who you favored wasted the everything and didn't even to got college. You have the right to put this teacher to shame. Never mind his reaction. Just let it out for the benefit of everyone.
Reply lijuanandrea 2015-6-15 16:01
  
Reply Candy.liu 2015-6-15 19:57
What a pity. It should be holy place, i feel angry for that but i know i couldn't do anything about them. It's too terrible. I think if i meet the same situation as your colleague, sure i won't give the diamond necklace to the teacher and headmaster. But I didn't figure out what i would do for the moment.

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