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All these years you have walked along and finally have become the kind of man or woman or still boy or girl you are, have you felt that friendship is something more than you can grasp. It slips through your fingers when you try to treasure. We often weigh these two issues--love and money, or love or bread, just the version is different, the main core thing remains the same.
It seems that people like to suffer themselves in the only and one choice between love or money, but it turns out many are the greedy kind, they want love, and they believe money will also come to them.
Well, have you ever weighed these other two issues--love and friendship, which in my opinion is much more practical. A lot of people are willing to sacrifice their friendship for the most gradeur thing--love. Maybe they are right in the end.
Songs often go like"Baby, I just can't be friends with you."
Or "Why can't we be more than friends?"
And the song by the pop Taiwanese girl band"还只是朋友"="nothing more than just friends", you get the denotion under the dictionary meaning? the meaning buried deep down within the words, between the lines?
I guess you do.
When all else fails, who will just still stay by your side? A lot of things change, which are beyond our control, such as the friend we once had.
Note the tense! Had.
How did you lose him or her? Was it that you were in the wrong side, or he or she just forgot about this bond shared between yourselves?
Friends still yesterday, but today no more.
Have you tried to save the day by getting the relationship right? But in vain?
Friendship, love, wealth, work, family,faith, the ambition to become successful, if all these were described as heavy sacks, and you feel the load, the burden along the way, will you relieve yourself of some of them or even all.
I don't think so.
We are not saint, we are only human.And we need all these things to enrich our live.
Don't you agree? And your opinion about love vs friendship?
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- Reply grechen
- "When all else fails, who will just still stay by your side?"
i like this sentence.
if there is some one when that moment comes, we are lucky
if there is no one when that moment comes, we are unlucky,but we still have ourselves who can create miracle from time to time.
sorry i seems to escape the topic you are talking, but some feeling just poured out when i saw that sentence.
- Reply danielrayslee
- grechen: "When all else fails, who will just still stay by your side?"Nothing, and you can just be my guest here. Our minds have wings, which can take off and fly away so far sometimes. This is only natural. Thanks for liking my sentence.
i like this sentence.
if there is some one when that moment comes, we are luc
- Reply catnfish
- I want to love, and I love. I'm sure love will come back to me as I give it away.
In a broad term, friendship is another kind of love, and more often the love between you and your partner will end up like friendship after a while. :)
But it's also good to say that "she/he's my best friend" ~
real friendship isn't made on purpose. It's naturally gained somehow. It's the same to real love.
Do you agree with me? What do u think of a true relationship?
- Reply Fionahere
- love is a leap of faith. sometimes you just have to close your eyes and take the leap, believing someone will be there to catch you.
- Reply danielrayslee
- Fionahere: love is a leap of faith. sometimes you just have to close your eyes and take the leap, believing someone will be there to catch you.
Sometimes, and you already say the word sometimes
What if you take the leap and fall direct to the bottom cos there will be no one to catch you
Or when you take the leap, that person is kinda busy, he will not make it to catch you.
Or He does try to catch you, but he misses it.
Or he does try to catch you again, but what about acceleration?（我们是不能忽略加速度的）Acceleration would be so large, i.e. if your weight is 50kg, when you fall to the hands of your honey, it will increase to 100kg, 200kg, depending on the height from where you fall.
NOt romantic at all.
- Reply Fionahere
- danielrayslee:it cannot always be secure when you are to do something significant . in a relationship, it's the same. what i said is just kind of metaphor. in order to be together, trust is the utmost important thing.Sometimes, and you already say the word sometimes
What if you take the leap and fall direct to the bottom cos there will be no one to catch yo
- Reply danielrayslee
- Fionahere: it cannot always be secure when you are to do something significant . in a relationship, it's the same. what i said is just kind of metaphor. in ordI am not fool enough not to know what you said is a kinda metaphor, it's just that once in a while I don't wanna be romantic, especially these days. There would be no such thing called love if there were no trust and intimacy(I use the word intimacy,cos sex might not sound nice here, but it kinda means the same)
Then love would be complete, the within, trust, the without, intimacy.
- Reply danielrayslee
- catnfish: I want to love, and I love. I'm sure love will come back to me as I give it away.Human beings are fragile, that's why we need love to make us strong. Without love we would feel we got no dignity, we did not have a place in this world.
In a broad term, friendship is another kind of love, and more often
Friendship, when first mentioned, is another kinda love, or it seems. But think about it. When we first feel love, especially love at first sight, we continue the relationship in a hopeful purpose. And friendship is just like, with the passage of time, we become intimate, one doesn't have to say it to the other, friendship not made on purpose.
Thus, love =/=friendship, friendship belongs to love? By the way, what is not called love in this world? The things we do, the things we eat, the people who pass us by and remain in our subconsciousness, all these take emotions out of the soul, thus we call them love?
A true relationship is , I don't know, the girl always giving you the baby-angel-like smiling, and the warmth of her palms will never go away when I hold'em, I always wanna feel like a kiss on her temple, her nose, her lips. This is a true relationship.
- Reply catnfish
- danielrayslee: Human beings are fragile, that's why we need love to make us strong. Without love we would feel we got no dignity, we did not have a place in this worThat is a true relationship you mentioned, and if you are getting it by giving all the nice stuff out :)
- Reply danielrayslee
- catnfish: That is a true relationship you mentioned, and if you are getting it by giving all the nice stuff out :)You have it now, treasure it.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- I am greedy, so I want to gain all of them, maybe it's impossible, but we pursue for it.
- Reply danielrayslee
- Sally_Fan: I am greedy, so I want to gain all of them, maybe it's impossible, but we pursue for it.This is not called greedy. Like I said, we are not saint, we need all these to make our life complete. I like girls like you who is honest.Are you busy with your work these days?
- Reply Sally_Fan
- danielrayslee: This is not called greedy. Like I said, we are not saint, we need all these to make our life complete. I like girls like you who is honest.Are you busUm, I have to work from 9 o'clock till 18:00 o'clock, just break up half hour for lunch, it's busy, so bad, as I just have little time to browse on this website. It's time to work now, good day!
- Reply danielrayslee
- Sally_Fan: Um, I have to work from 9 o'clock till 18:00 o'clock, just break up half hour for lunch, it's busy, so bad, as I just have little time to browse on thThe state of being busy keeps one healthy and from all of those worries in the world. Thanks for being my great friend.
