It's been a tough weekend, can't help shouting out loud...
Last night, my classmate in college told me that my first boyfriend still can't get me out of his mind, my friend asked me to be together with him again, the reason is, he must be the one who love me the deepest, so he suggested that i should grasp the chance.
He also told me that, my ex-bf gave up a job with good salary in order to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and he thought he has potential and we were meant to be.
It really reminds me of my ex-bf. Indeed, he is a good guy, who always treat me so well, he could change a lot of things for me. I was so sad when i thought abt him, at least we've been together for 3 years. At first, he chased me, and i turned him down several times, but it seems that it doesn't work, he keeps doing those good things for me. I remembered, when i got cold, he went to the restaurant to borrow ginger for me to make tea; when i need anything, he would do it for me immediately. I was moved for abt a year, and agreed to be his girlfriend. Things become different, i don't treat him that well, i think that's because i was spoiled, i can't stand him ignoring me, i was so independent at that time, we often quarreled and we separated for several times. But every time, as long as he asked me to get together with him, everytime he apologize, i would always forgive him. I can't lose him, he was so good to me.
3 years later, i found myself getting tired of him, he often skip the classes, that's what i always get angry with. I think he should be more positive instead of getting up late, he was obsessed with computer games like the other boys, his temper is not that good as before, he leave me alone in the restaurant with dropping the chopsticks, i was left alone there, crying, but he never turned back, he might be regretting for what he did, but i would never, ever forget that feeling. So i was so determined to over this relationship.
He keeps asking me to forgive him, but i won't this time. I was so hurt.
Then i had another relationship, my second bf, i like him a lot. Honestly, he don't treat me well as my first bf. But my happiness is much more. At our graduation party, my first bf brought a new "girlfriend", who turned to be a fake one. He drank a lot of wine, he never do that. At that night, i drank a lot, too. I think i cried, for his being so soon to have a new gf, i didn't know that was fake.
It's been a year since that graduation party, i'm still single, he seemed to have a gf in the other city, people say, they don't love each other. Last night, i cried a lot, i miss him, i really do. But i don't know how i feel when it comes to marriage, it seems i don't have the courage to be back together with him, we'r not ready.
So i think the best way to live, is forget abt the past, just forget it. Start over, everything will be fine.
I HOPE SO.