It doesn't matter where you are coming from , all that matters is where you are going . Every mountain has its peaks and valleys , every living person's life has its ups and downs . No one is up all the time , nor are they down all the time . So we shouldn't be proud more when we succeed , also we can't become pessimistic when we are at our downs .
We all have no magic , so we can not control what happens to us , but we can really control our attitude toward what happens to us , and in that , we shall be mastering change rather than allowing it to master ourselves.
So what should we do when we face difficulties on our life road ? Oh , don't cry , don't be sad and upset , just keep pleasant . The habit of keeping pleasant is indeed better than an income of a thousand dollars a year . The life without cheerfulness is like the severe winter without the sun .
However mean our life is , meat it and live it . Don't trouble ourselves much to get new things , such as clothes , money , housing and so on . Don't refer to our own success , social status and housing conditions , whatever happens , we should talk to ourselves 'all that matters is our attitudes' .