Sometimes I could receive messages from friends complaining about their private problems including one-sided love upon someone. Today, there is a message from one girl: “Can you spare me a few minutes?” “Ok, about what? Love?” it’s not difficult to surmise the answer. The actor of her love story is her high school classmate who is now at a famous university. The boy persisted entreating my friend to help find a girl friend for him. That’s really a difficult task for a girl who has loved him silently for many years. At first, she tried to introduce some familiar girls to him, ending with his discontent every time.

She expressed her love finally, taking the plunge thoroughly. The decision must be very hard for her to make, for if she tells him what she really thinks, she would be probably alienated by the boy if he's still unresponsive to her. On the other side, to keep friendship with him, she may also hide love inside and keep introducing girls to the boy, sounding a little unfair to the girl. I persuaded her to speak out true feelings to the boy, and she did recently.

It’s not a happy ending, however. She got turned down by the boy and had to face the crises of their many years’ friendship. She must have considered about the consequence though tough for a little girl.

Please don’t give up  pursuing for happiness and you will come across someone more excellent, treasuring your love.