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when it comes to the last day of holiday, i am always thinking how perfect will be if we can always have an eight-days'off. you know, we have a two-month's summer vacation each year. i will really appreciate it if the summer vacation can be divided into 12 parts and put in each month,huh. in this way, i guess i will live like a happy fairy every day.
by the way, i want to share a sentence i read this morning with you.
the famous writer xiaoxian says "a man can hurt a woman's heart not always because of his betrayal. it still hurts when he disappoints her every time she is full of expectation, when he gives no support in her weak time, when he will be jealous of her achievement. how will she tell others those hurt? she really wants to cry before she can begin to speak."
i always think why the women always put themselves in a passive place to wait for the coming hurt. just like myself, i always choose to depend on someone instead of being independent of him. maybe that's the reason why i always get hurt.
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- Reply Laura_Lucky
- keep sober when with men . they are weak lib sometimes . if we ran into a good man , there will not be a problem . cause normal Mr right is always there for girls , that is why he is called Mr right .. if we get hurt , means somthing blinding (蒙蔽了。)us from the guy!
- Reply sunnyv
- Haha.... eight days off and two summer vacations, how nice? Yeah, keep on wishing.... just kidding.
In a relationship, both sides have to sacrifice a lot to build a lasting relationship. A lot depends on the mentality and background of the man. Should he have a fair and rationale mind, he would know how to care for his other half. This goes both ways. Being independent can be disastrous in a relationship because the man would feel he is not the central supporting figure making him lost confidence.
