I think there is a common phenomenon that so many people nowadays don’t want to have a direct look at their problem or to face the difficulty directly, the reason of that mainly because they want to avoid the adversity and problems, however, that’s the main factor which results in the undesirable outcome of everyone’s future.

And in terms of me, I think the best and also the most effective way to solve this problem is that you have to face your problem directly, that’s the most obvious method in order to know your real problem clearly and find the effective and suitable way on your own as well. In some cases, because some one doesn’t dare to look at his or her problems or conditions directly, he or she becomes more and more lazy and whiny, in that he or she always feel a huge burden on his or her shoulder, and also it seems that there is a voice near his or her ears that remind him or her to do something to solve the problems….….

So after you find your real problems and choose some methods to solve, you will feel the disappearance of your burden which agonize you so much, and what’s more, you will gain a great progress and improvement after you realize your decision or goals, come on…