There is a theory I think everyone knows it exactly that if you want a wonderful future for yourself, you have to experience a process of a torture since the way to success is not such straight as we anticipate.

Several days before, I watched a teleplay in which there is a really classical dialog that one actor said according to a philosophy book that if you want to go to heaven, before that you have to learn how to go to hell, that’s the reality, everyday we struggle for our dream whatever it is, we have to go through a extremely tough and rigid procedure that leaves a impressive memory in our life even if we are old, we will never forget.

And in my opinion, there is something could help us to minimize the difficulty that we would meet on our way to the success, the most crucial is the self appraisal since if one can access him or herself in a objective approach then he or she would has a more appropriate goal or destination, in another word, they make it a little bit easier since the objective of them is made based on their own condition.

Furthermore, once we have such an aim to achieve, we should focus on it as well as to be persistent until we make it although this is such a long and difficult process. If you cannot put up with it and want to give up, better to give up earlier as later you will be more regretful since you waste plenty of time and energy on it.