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English Salon

358 views. 2011-3-22 17:31 |Individual Classification:Daily Life

  It’s by a miracle that night I stepped in a bookstore and took part in an English Saloon which was held there. I am a helpless social wreck, and for years I’ve led a kind of self-imposed secluded life. My jobs, which involved a lot of  behind-scenes works, have enabled me to avoid socializing with the others as much as possible. For me, nothing is more convenient than simply melting into the background. Every time when a chance arose, if it was required of certain communication skills, I would cave in and run away. So, it's really against my nature to volunteer for such a social activity.

      This small and elegant bookstore is located across the street from where I live. Every Sunday and Wednesday, an English saloon is held there.  This place seems to have something special, something so subtle that I can’t put my finger on but it was very enchanting and luring, as if calling for me every time when I passed by. Many times I stopped by and read the new topic for next English Saloon from a board outside with great interests. But I never get enough nerve up to walk in until that night.

     It turned out to be a great experience. I managed to play a more active role than I really was, and somehow I succeeded in one way or another. Certainly I stumbled and made mistakes since I hadn't spoken English for a quite long time. And it's always nervous for me to speak to the strangers. But on the whole it was not as bad as I had expected. Funny, it seemed easier to make an approach to the strangers when communicating in a foreign language. It sort of created an erotic atmosphere and everyone was more open and bold hiding behind another language. We talked about a lot, and sometimes even mentioned things very personal. When Stella told us that only one time her husband had said ' I love you' to her seriously, that was when he asked for a divorce, I was dying to ask what had happened next, but I bite my tongue in time when I remembered that we barely knew each other and it was improper to push her more on this subject. I also found myself telling something about my childhood, something I had never mentioned before, let alone to the strangers.

      I think I would go next time.

Post comment Comment (8 replies)

Reply 怡兰 2011-3-22 18:10
I definitely understand you! it happens the same to me when I speak Chinese... my Chinese is not so fluent but I feel free to speak up! on the contrary I always feel shy when speaking in Italian... I don't know why...
Reply rich 2011-3-22 19:17
it sounds like a great experience. i've never been to such a salon myself. is there a host or who set the topic for each gathering? i'm a bit curious.
Reply 2010jj 2011-3-22 21:32
I haven't talking to some people in english for such a long time!
Reply bluephoebe 2011-3-23 15:16
怡兰: I definitely understand you! it happens the same to me when I speak Chinese... my Chinese is not so fluent but I feel free to speak up! on the contrar
It’s strange, isn’t it? I can read, write English, but whenever it came to speaking, I became tongue-tied. But sometimes, I found that I could express myself freer in English. Langue is indeed a great puzzle.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-3-23 15:21
rich: it sounds like a great experience. i've never been to such a salon myself. is there a host or who set the topic for each gathering? i'm a bit curious.
Yes, there is a host, either selected by group or someone volunteered. The host would divide all the attendees into group and each group has a team leader. First, group discussion, then team leader make presentation, finally Q&A time.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-3-23 15:23
2010jj: I haven't talking to some people in english for such a long time!
it goes a bit rusty, doesn't it? English is such a demanding subject, if you rest, you rust. No shortcuts. not like learning bicycle, you could pick it up at any time. sometimes, that really frustrated me.
Reply 2010jj 2011-3-24 12:31
bluephoebe: it goes a bit rusty, doesn't it? English is such a demanding subject, if you rest, you rust. No shortcuts. not like learning bicycle, you could pick i
yep, i really catch what you said. There is no royal road to learning.
Reply Fionahere 2011-4-2 21:07
It reminds me of the English corner at my university . Actually I am a little shy, too, but I really feel free to talk to others in english. And i also made some friends there. In my eyes, English allows me a space to express myself freely and feel at ease even in front of  strangers huh.

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