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Women's Secret (Translation)
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Don’t accuse me of being cynic, I just got fed up with these stories----- no matter how independent and intelligent they used to be , many, many women start revolving their life around their husbands after getting married and finally completely loose themselves. Unfortunately, no man would like to have a shadow as his wife, even a chauvinist. SO, listen carefully to the following eight rules, and don’t wait until you are dumped and cry your heart out.
ONE:
Reason: Your husband can't find a mistress to do the chores, but more likely he would find one to spend his money.
TWO:
You may not wear makeup, but you must not live without a set of makeup products.
Reason: Wearing no make-up probably because you don’t want your natural beauty being ruined by the cosmetics, but having no make-up products means that you have never prepared yourself well for the social life.
THIRD:
You may not like to shop around, but you must like shopping
Reason: You don’t like to shop around because you are a grow-up and have your own taste in shopping; but if you don’t like shopping, you must have no creative ideas, and no zest for the life.
Four:
You may not bring home bread and butter, but you must have a career.
Career here include freelance and charity service. If you get paid, that's because you are capable; if you don’t, that's because you are benevolent. your social statue decides your statue in the family. Don’t buy a men's story about “Come home, I can provide for you.” He is going to raise you up to a stay-at-home wife then ditch you.
sorry, my son is up. i got go, to be continued....
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Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply snowflying
- aha, to we fwomen funny? not. always have a feeling, we are not equal with those husbands,not only at houseworks,but many fields.maybe this is our country traditinal value idea,maybe those men have so deep male chauvinist to us females. in china, always men deminate the society running, though we females have our works too.our roles on society always assistants. whether you admit it or not. while home always is the place where we should stay maintain and charge forever. till now,a real mid-age woman, still so many doubt about the husbands and wives field.
wish we all can do a good wife, do a good dependent female, do a good ourselves too.
- Reply sammi1007
- i like it,pls continue. i think a female must believe three rules:economic independence,spirit independence and personality independence.we can't puzzle ourselves in family or society.maybe sometimes it's difficult to achieve our aim,but it's no pity in life.
- Reply bluephoebe
- snowflying: aha, to we fwomen funny? not. always have a feeling, we are not equal with those husbands,not only at houseworks,but many fields.maybe this is our coudespite all the talks of equality, we are not, probably never would be in the same boat with man. but doesn't mean that we can't enjoy our life and take care of our own skin.
- Reply bluephoebe
- sammi1007: i like it,pls continue. i think a female must believe three rules:economic independence,spirit independence and personality independence.we can't puzzi will continue. even though i don't agree with every word of it, it certainly has some points. i usually prefer writing than translation, but i still decided to give it a try.
- Reply bluephoebe
- 2010jj: Good points. Women are supposed to have their own taste and career.generally speaking, we all should stand up on our own feet, male or female. it's a terrible idea to put your own fate into the other's hands---even good hands
- Reply 2010jj
- bluephoebe: generally speaking, we all should stand up on our own feet, male or female. it's a terrible idea to put your own fate into the other's hands---even goTotally agree with you!
- Reply bluephoebe
- susiee: hehe,so many funny but useful suggestions!i also found it interesting. that's why i gave a try at translation. just for share and reference.
