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Today, you got yourself hurt. I told you not to play with your breakfast, but apparently you didn’t listen. A few minutes later, I heard you a big bang and then you start to scream. I rushed to you and it was a minute too late.
You were playing with a cup of water and suddenly the boiled water poured out and all spilled on your upper thighs. A sharp pain speared my temples when I saw your burnt skin, as if the scalding water not only hurt you but also burnt my eyes.
In a second I want to hug you, comfort you like everyone else did. However, an alarm buried deep inside recoiled at the idea fussing over you again. I steeled myself to stay calm and applied the unguent to the wound. “It’s not a big deal. Getting hurt is just a part of grown-up. I guess next time you would know better. “I heard myself said in a calm, almost disconnected tone. You looked up, with tears in your eyes, and your big eyes seemed to look directly into my heart.
Your grandma asked: “Who put that cup on the table? It’s not even closed!” I cut her short and look directly back into your eyes: “You can’t blame this for anyone else but yourself. You know it, right? I told you stop playing and attend to your breakfast.” Hesitated a bit, you nod your head. Signed, I ruffled up your hair a bit.
When we were out of your room, grandma said to me accusingly: “He’s just a kid. You can’t be too careful with a kid.” “He is 8 years old. We can’t revolve ourselves around watching over him and monitoring his every move. “I seldom gave grandma any back-chat, but not this time. I hate this. My normal modus operandi is to avoid confrontation, to not speak up, but I want to stand my ground for this. As your mother, I have to do whatever necessary, sometimes the necessary was not so pleasant, but that not made it any less necessary.
There was an alarm buried deep inside, an alarm said that “We might ruin you with overprotection, too much fuss over and so called love.” One child in a family, such cases just happen again and again. We have not gone that far, but the possibility is always there, looming like a storm cloud that never quite reached, but kept me checking its position time to time.
Dear, I can’t protect you forever---even I could, I would not. You have to learn to deal with frustrations, hurts, pains---they are part of life---and sometimes the best way to learn is to learn from them.
sunnyv: An overprotected kid would never realize real dangers and potential hazards. A child from a rich family is likely to be spoiled, reliant, lack indepen ...
Ausfrank: Usually parents and grandparents always have different views over how to look after their young kids. As I can see from your story above, you wanted y ...
Scarlett_Lin: I had a similar experience like your child. When I was young, I was sent to kingdergarten and I could only go back home on weekends. I relied deeply o ...
bluephoebe: Thanks for your kindly consideration. I understand your concerns. I might not make it clear, here, grandpa and grandma is my parents, not my in-laws. ...
bluephoebe: Thanks for your kindly consideration. I understand your concerns. I might not make it clear, here, grandpa and grandma is my parents, not my in-laws. ...
bluephoebe: Thanks for your kindly consideration. I understand your concerns. I might not make it clear, here, grandpa and grandma is my parents, not my in-laws. ...
lovingfun: Nowdays, children are really indulged by parents, or grandparents. Due to huge life pressure, too many parents haven't got enough time with their kids ...
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