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People keep moving in and out of my life, but only a few can be remembered.
It's almost one year since my graduation. Though I do have contacts with my former classmates, but the number is not so large. Gradually, I find myself seldom contacting anybody except my roomies. I don't know why this has happened. With the assistant of modern technology, it's very convenient for me to contact anybody I want to. However, reality is not so optimistic. I used to send at least 500 SMS every month, but now no more than 100. Maybe this is just what life is.
Life keeps moving on, and so do us.
But should old friends be forgotten?
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- Reply 刺猬
- i have the same feeling , i think that is we are in the different condition and get different people and we grow up , be realistic. i can not suitable for it , but i could not change it , then accept it .as we are the same in others 'eyes . we have the distance after graduation.
- Reply liudongming
- I had the same feeling with you after i stepped out of my college.So I think this is a common phenomanon in mankind.There are many kinds of frends.I think the number of friends is not important.One or two real friend is beter than a bunch of friends who cann't offer helps in need.
- Reply bessie
- The same to you. I'm on my internship now but have less contact with friends either. I rarely send SMS and be used to calling now.
- Reply JOJO201
- This is life.one thing we get,one thing will be foget.When you miss the one forgotten you,just make her a call to tell her your feeling.At least you do not to be regret for yourself.
- Reply scarlet
- 刺猬: i have the same feeling , i think that is we are in the different condition and get different people and we grow up , be realistic. i can not suitablyes, one of my teachers used to tell us that " change what you cannot accept and accept what you cannot change."
- Reply scarlet
- moli: Maybe your friends have no time to contact you because they are busy with work and life.Maybe, after all, our life keeps going on after graduation.
- Reply scarlet
- liudongming: I had the same feeling with you after i stepped out of my college.So I think this is a common phenomanon in mankind.There are many kinds of frends.I tu r right. i guess one or a few true friends are totally enough.
- Reply scarlet
- bessie: The same to you. I'm on my internship now but have less contact with friends either. I rarely send SMS and be used to calling now.me, too. Now i simply choose to make a call.
- Reply scarlet
- JOJO201: This is life.one thing we get,one thing will be foget.When you miss the one forgotten you,just make her a call to tell her your feeling.At least you dI guess it's not about regret. It's a natural process of life. everybody moves on as life does.
- Reply JOJO201
- scarlet: I guess it's not about regret. It's a natural process of life. everybody moves on as life does.agree with you,we should catch up with the pace of our life.
- Reply scarlet
- JOJO201: agree with you,we should catch up with the pace of our life.yes, everybody moves on as life continues.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- The same feeling as you, now I just keep contact with few classmates, not for the time & distance, but less the passion to communicate, I don't konw why.
- Reply scarlet
- Sally_Fan: The same feeling as you, now I just keep contact with few classmates, not for the time & distance, but less the passion to communicate, I don't koMaybe it's because we all have moved on, new friends, new social contacts, new life.
I agree with you!