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I really want to have a good cry, I may hurt my family because of my boyfriend , but I don't know what to do, who can tell me?
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- Reply jason12088
- just do it, u should have a positive mind...
- Reply Sophia_kk
- Firstly,I think you should realize that wherher you really love your boyfriend and he deserved that love.Parents should be the ones who understand us most sufficiently.I think battling with family is not a wise choice,unless your family strongly stick to oppose your right choice.Talking with famliy,you can try your best to get their support,meanwhile your boyfriend should make effort with you too,because this is a difficulty for both of you.
Cheer up！You will get the final success.Cry can not help things develop,except for decreasing your stress.
- Reply wendy12cool
- i was in the same situation as u , i suffered a lot , u know, in those days,i think i did what i felt right, i insisted dating with my bf, since i broke up with my bf, i suddenly realized that maybe my parents r right! They always know what u need, i think time will prove everything.good luck!
- Reply zouhaiyan
- wendy12cool: i was in the same situation as u , i suffered a lot , u know, in those days,i think i did what i felt right, i insisted dating with my bf, since i broThank so much for your understanding, I hope everything can go well. I don't want to hurt everybody.
- Reply zouhaiyan
- Sophia_kk: Firstly,I think you should realize that wherher you really love your boyfriend and he deserved that love.Parents should be the ones who understand usThank you so mush for advice, I havn't told my parents that I have a relationship with a person, I afraid they would disagree with us, because he is too far away from us, and he is a guy not rich, you know every parents hope that their children can have good life, I understand them, but I think they don't understand what I really need, what is important to me.
- Reply zouhaiyan
- wendykezj: sorry not know what situation you are in ,if you want to cry,please just do.I'm ok now, thanks for you regards. I have cried for so many times, but I found that would no use, so I deceided to try my best to make myself happy.
- Reply Sophia_kk
- zouhaiyan: Thank you so mush for advice, I havn't told my parents that I have a relationship with a person, I afraid they would disagree with us, because he is tYou need not too worry about it because you have not introduce your bf to parents.Everything is begining.In my opinion,it is better not to quarrel with parents that will hurt them and make youself in a bad mood.That atmosphere will also effect the relation between you and your BF.Maybe you will have treason action which is bad for your next step.
Try to tell your mother firstly,for Mom is more tender than father.As a woman,she will know your idea more easily.Tell her how happy you felt with your BF and your future plan.Parents are more practice that they do not care romance too much.Listen to your Mom's idea,you will benefit.If she disagree,she will tell you the reason.
I think far away between your homtowns does not matter.Lots of people from everywhere makes family.If both of you have a good job,money is not a impotant factor too.Every young guy begins with nothing.Take it easy,wise girl,you can change your parents idea to support you,neither battle nor be far away,step by step to success.
- Reply zouhaiyan
- Sophia_kk: You need not too worry about it because you have not introduce your bf to parents.Everything is begining.In my opinion,it is better not to quarrel witThank you so much for your advice, it's very useful for me, I will try my best te persuade my parents to accept him, I think I will successed.
- Reply Sophia_kk
- zouhaiyan: Thank you so much for your advice, it's very useful for me, I will try my best te persuade my parents to accept him, I think I will successed.Yes~ I think so~
- Reply daisyyouxue
- well , whatever ,you should have a good communication with your parents, wheater a heart-to-heart talk,or a formal family conference, which may help you with it！
well,wish you happy! love everyone they worth!
