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what should I do?
When we meet some problems, we will think like this, what should we do? how can we do it better, these are a normal questions.After we make clearly of our thoughts, then to solve the problems .
But some problems is not easy to solve, one of my friends make a boyfriend, what's make me surprised is that her boyfriend is younger than her, 5 gap, I think it's not easy to bridge the gap.Yes, it just my thought, I still support her, I know she loves the boy, she gives more to he,and she also worried about one day of them say good-bye.The more she thoughts, the more she unhappy, she told me these days, they always quarrel with each other, she feels he changed more.
So she asked me what should she do, I don't know how to answer this quetion, I think this is one's personal emotion,except console, I can do nothing.
I think when we make some choices, it means we will afford some results, so before we do each thing, first we should think what result we wll face.
Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply linda_328
- Everybody got their own choice. That's what makes life so interesting!
If you choose it ,I think we should try to enjoy the process of our life.don't worry anything~~~the more you worry,the more will happen.Love is a world of two.enjoy yourselves~~~
but i dno't know how old is your friend?there are some books that i want to share.<懂得爱>《原来可以这样爱》《爱上双人舞》If your friend see fit ,i think she should read~~~
- Reply kelly513
- linda_328: Everybody got their own choice. That's what makes life so interesting!thanks for your comments and your suggest.
If you choose it ,I think we should try to enjoy the process of our life.don't
- Reply jollity2002
- Just spend more time to know the other one!
- Reply kelly513
- jollity2002: Just spend more time to know the other one!yes,but I think trust is very important for them.
- Reply jollity2002
- kelly513: yes,but I think trust is very important for them.Hehe...
You are right!
- Reply zoedong
- It really surprises me. Perhaps they really love each other. But who can really tell us they really understand love? We can't predict the ending, especially to love. So what they only can do is to walk forward. Or the girl should think over the whole event carefully.
- Reply kelly513
- zoedong: It really surprises me. Perhaps they really love each other. But who can really tell us they really understand love? We can't predict the ending, espI think so, but as a friend, I hope she everythingh goes well.
- Reply sunnyv
- Love should be free from all barriers including age and status. However, sometimes the social pressures are overwhelming. Parents normally can't accept a boy one year younger than the girl but in this case it is five years difference. She will have to balance between love and reality. In this situation, it is best to let her go on and take the test of time.
- Reply kelly513
- sunnyv: Love should be free from all barriers including age and status. However, sometimes the social pressures are overwhelming. Parents normally can't accepThanks for your comments, yes, at the beginning, her mother didn't accept the boy, but now she give up,I think she loves her daughter, as most of the parents can't accept this fact.
