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Hot 61151 views. 2013-6-2 14:46 | Topic, for, Discussion

In China, marriage is often linked to the financial situations of a young couple's families, especially the man's side. And house is taken as a must for the marriage and stable life. Chinese people have a deep-rooted concept for the feeling of stability, which lead us to go after a house of our own, a stable job, a stable and never broken marriage.

Today the housing prices soaring to the extent which shocks every bridegroom-to-be and his parents. Whether the man has the ability to support a house has become the prerequisite that the bride-to-be and her parents must take into consideration.

I'm really confused about what is marriage on earth. Is it equal to a house, a large sum of money, beautiful education background or something else that is taken seriously in a materialistic marriage. Then, what role does love play in a marriage? Is there any still beautiful story which comes to a happy end?

If you have thinked about this question for a while, or you are confused about it, please let me know your feelings.

Post comment Comment (13 replies)

Reply shirleyytt2010 2013-6-2 16:25
True love should never related to Money, but two people should work hard for their better future life.
Reply ocean0721 2013-6-2 20:53
The housing price is too high to afford in Beijing. The young couple has to work hard because of the house for more than twenty years.
Reply Eric.Ai 2013-6-2 23:54
Weight of love plus money, won't get the balance of happiness right?
but I think love need  tolerant , and marriage is a responsibility!
Reply Nik-luo 2013-6-3 21:49
yes , i am considering this problem now   , everything seems are difficult to do especially for the house , you are really really concise and to the point about this !!   i think that if my girl friend and her parents give me some burden such as like that i would rather go away even if i am love so much . and find another girl who we can be love each other and get marriage  as soon as possible . just happy for each other , i confirmly believe that we can have the things what the other family has in the future  .
Reply ocean0721 2013-6-3 21:55
Nik-luo: yes , i am considering this problem now   , everything seems are difficult to do especially for the house , you are really really concise and to the p ...
The problem of housing is more serious in the first-class cities like Beijing. If you love your girlfriend, please work hard for your happiness. Don't quit too quickly. It's not a shame if you have worked hard for it but unfortunately lose it finnally.
Reply ocean0721 2013-6-3 22:01
Eric.Ai: Weight of love plus money, won't get the balance of happiness right?
but I think love need  tolerant , and marriage is a responsibility!
Before I think love will turn into responsibility. Until I met my present boyfrined, I come to know that love is kind of strong feeling of taking good care of the beloved one without any unwillingness.
Reply Nik-luo 2013-6-3 22:05
the first she and her family can show respect for my love and trust me and believe our love . this june sixteen i will be to visit there and wish i can have a good luch at the moment  .  i was to go to beijing for visiting before . i do hope i can be there as a tourist this year .
Reply ocean0721 2013-6-4 12:27
Nik-luo: the first she and her family can show respect for my love and trust me and believe our love . this june sixteen i will be to visit there and wish i ca ...
Good luck to you!
Reply Ausfrank 2013-6-4 22:03
Housing price soar can be seen in many counties. China, however, has housing price bubble obviously. It is very sad because love is no longer to be a key factor to get married and having your owe home is essential for a man to find his lover. What kind of world do we live in now! Unfortunate, we are just ordinary people, nothing we can do about it. Enjoying something you have got, it will make you feel better.
Reply barry_2013 2013-6-5 18:01
love, house, money, baby, clothes, and so on ,these are all necessary for we everyone, however I think the love is the base for the other, there will be no any thing if there is no love, so, in the marriage love is first, then the others.
Reply penfield 2014-6-19 10:24
As an adult, you define your love rather than some one else. And, the most important is to find a mate for you who agrees with you.
Reply ocean0721 2014-6-20 10:59
penfield: As an adult, you define your love rather than some one else. And, the most important is to find a mate for you who agrees with you.
It's not easy to find someone who always agree with me. Life needs us make sacrifice to get a happy relationship.
Reply penfield 2014-6-20 13:46
ocean0721: It's not easy to find someone who always agree with me. Life needs us make sacrifice to get a happy relationship.
Make a little sacrifice, you will get more. So it is profitable.

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