What is a happy marriage for a girl？To marry a man who already has a decent and well-paid job or a boy who has not reached such high position but is ambitious and still struggling ? My aunt once advised me to find a boyfriend who has got a Ph.D, for she thinks my future partner's higher academic background means higher social status and a better life available for me. But what about a man who has high academic qualification but is plain-looking ,has no charm to me at all? Will I still have a better life with such kind of men? I 'm afraid I won't.

    It is for sure that we girls need to find an abled man who is competitive or even outstanding in a school and then in future's job market,in that way it is more likely for him to provide us a more well-off life. However, the key to the happiness of marriage,I suppose, lies in the mutual love.Above all, we must marry a man who we love,not a man who merely has a lot of wealth.Without love ,marriage has no meaning of existence.Besides, it's more advisable to find a boyfriend who is superior to you in some circumstances, for we all want to marry "up",finding someone better can gives us a sense of accomplishment.  But I really don't think the single qualification of a doctor degree has any appeal to me when I 'm searching for my Mr.right. If it really matters,I will try to persuade him to go further study ,if he doesn't want to do so, I have no complaint ,as long as he is the one I really love and he loves me as well. With love, you are willing to overcome hardship and harvest sweet together in life ,so your marriage will sure be a happy one.

 What 's your opinion,my friends? please tell me.