There are so mang different between me and my wife. May be it is same to many couples.
I have't had worry about the money from I was a little child although there was no much in my family. On account of my character I love drawing ,calligraphy ,tourist,photography and may sports. I prefer happiness than money. So many of my money was spent on that. I don't think it is unreasonable .
Contary,my wife is a thrifty woman. She always refined calculatie on each yuan and even angry for one days for little money's wast. I admit that it is always right for life .But it make me crackers some time.
I came to Kunshan to live wife my wife there on the middle of June. I have to get a new job in the period. Now I haven't had a new job for two months out of work. There are not any interesting place beside my home. I always want to go out to have a journey because of the depressing life. I want to buy a mountain bike which cost 1000RMB to have the journey. she refuse to agree with my plan before I get a new job because of the cost .I know even the bus ticks is unacceptable for her. That make me angry and bugs. I know her anxiety about houses and life because of my out of work this period. I can't get a mountain bike befor her agreement although I don't agree with her opinion.
maybe she is right,that's why most of the finical affairs was administered by wife in many families.