Why are you changing so much?

Yesterday,i went out with two of my male friends,and they told me that i have changed so much that they could not even "recognise" me."You had your hair dyed ,and changed your clothing style and your speaking habit.What is wrong with you?Is there anything bad happened on you?"they told me with a really dslike tone.

I fele very sad.Is it a fault to try to be mature?I know everyone around me regards me as a child,but i am not!Iam an adult-up,i have the right to deal with myself,my hair, clothes and whehter to make a boyfriend.I am not being childish or rebel.I know what suits to me,i know which style i could hold on,and i know ,even if i do not know,i prefer to experience it by my own and obtain and improve gradually.

I do wonder why they are so averse to my changing.Everyone is growing up.I cannot be the one which i used to be.Neither do they.