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DO YOU really believe in LOVE? ~answer me~
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Friday,Jul,10th,2009 sunny
This question has been cofusing me for a very long time. Not just me, but a lot of my friends,especially girls. Yesterday i think about this question again because i said i don't believe in love when i had a quarrel with my boyfriend. He was really angry and sad after hearing those words and he questioned that if i don't believe in love, what is the meaning of our relationship. I couldn't answer him and i was regretful to say that.
Just try to imagine, if a person was hurt by love for several times, how can he/she believe in love desperately? Of course, time can heal your pains but it cannot remove the reality and the truth. when people falls in love at the first time, their opinion towards love is pure and simple. In their mind, love could conquer anything and they believe in forever love and pure love. After a period of time, they begin to realize that it's not enough that we just have love.
Then, they became confused and depressed until the second love comes. But this time.people will be careful and easy to be negative in love. One after another. One seperation after another one. we are tired. No forever, no simple love. There are many problems need us to solve, to overcome. The couple must struggle for their future togrther and no one can escape from it.
One of my best girl friend told me that we must protect ourselves from being hurt by love. The only way is DON'T REALLY BELIEVE IN LOVE. It sounds sorrowful but...........
I don't know what to say. Do you believe in it? so why? or why not?
Post comment Comment (34 replies)
- Reply Janice
- monkeylinstar: i have no idea with true love. I can't judge it by my sense or anything happened. Maybe that is a process which two people enjoy a lot and suffer lot
It seems that few people really know what is true love.hehe~
- Reply monkeylinstar
- Janice:yeah~ just ..let it be...It seems that few people really know what is true love.hehe~
haha~~~
- Reply wangfei919
- monkeylinstar: sorry, i didn't understand your meaning....well, i meant that true love always exits in our daily life, but we could not notice that.
- Reply monkeylinstar
- wangfei919: well, i meant that true love always exits in our daily life, but we could not notice that.yes.. we tend to ignore the natural love in our life.
- Reply 暮光之城
- yeah,love is giving each other some ownner time and space. so for that you should learn how to believe your partner.
- Reply monkeylinstar
- 暮光之城: yeah,love is giving each other some ownner time and space. so for that you should learn how to believe your partner.yeah~ i'm on the way learning now...
- Reply monkeylinstar
- meloq: yes,i believeOH~CUTE~QQQQQQQ~
- Reply monkeylinstar
- god: I believe in love!!well~ excited~
- Reply monkeylinstar
- Edelweiss: Like Janice I haven't had any taste of love yet but I believe true love exists....why don't you try it ?
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