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Last night, when i was going to sleep, my phone was ringing.
It's juan called, she told her boyfriend want them get marriage asap, maybe the end of this year, i know they will sooner or later, but juan seems has not yet prepared it well, she felt unhappy when the boy proposed to her.
Why? she told that it's so hard for her to face the life after marriaging, how to cook, where do they live, these matters is really stop her to agree her of the propose.
And she told she don't want to leave her mother, as you can image, she doesn't need to do housework at all when live with her own family, things will totally changed if they get married, she don't have that courage to face all of this.
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Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- I suspect the girl does not love the boy deeply. A girl would normally accept a marriage proposal without much hesitation if there is deep love in the marriage. Those excuses about living, cooking and parents are weak and not convincing. Most people still get marriage even though they face more serious problems than this.
Certainly, people have to plan properly before getting married, but for a girl, time does not wait for her. It is now or never.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Actually, we all need face more problems after getting marriged. But this is the begining of our own new family. It means we start to face our own life independently. In my heart, this is the happy time for a girl.
About her mother, I think she would be happy no more for her daughter.
- Reply lovingfun
- Agree with sunnyv, life itself is full of up and downs, all kind of problem will come. Even if you don't get married, problem is still there to be solved.
Things will have its way, needn't worry too much. But one things is true , think before leap.
- Reply cestlavie
- you got the point, she was not love the boy deep enough. that's why the hesitation exist at that time, now that she chose him, i think she must face all this issue herself, i can only soothe her by her side when she needs.
sunnyv: I suspect the girl does not love the boy deeply. A girl would normally accept a marriage proposal without much hesitation if there is deep love in the ...
- Reply cestlavie
- yeah, i also agree it should be an excited moment when your lover propose to you, if not, what does it proof? does it mean you choose the wrong guy? should you proceed this relationship? that's a problem.
zhouying2012: Actually, we all need face more problems after getting marriged. But this is the begining of our own new family. It means we start to face our own lif ...
- Reply cestlavie
- en, problem exists everywhere, every moment, it depends on ourselves
lovingfun: Agree with sunnyv, life itself is full of up and downs, all kind of problem will come. Even if you don't get married, problem is still there to be sol ...
- Reply Tange
- looking into the inside of girl's heart ; it seem that the girl's view on the marriage is different from the guys ..
- Reply cestlavie
- So what's the point of view from you guys?
Tange: looking into the inside of girl's heart ; it seem that the girl's view on the marriage is different from the guys ..
