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I felt remorse so much for what i had said and done last week.
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I met a person last weekend, his name is zhuo, i didn't know how to express my feeling at this very moment, however, i do know i must did something wrong or, at least said anything wrong, that he don't wanna get in touch with me any more. Isn't this what i expected?
why i feel so upset now? it's too late to apology, also i entirely have no idea what else i can do to correct this, the only word i can tell is to say goodbye to him??
I think i just can accept this fact and forget this person, no more thought, i wish that i can recover promptly and strat my new life.
nevertheless, i still feel grieved now !
Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Oh my god. You must have said something wrong that hurt his feelings. Everyone has different sensitivity to certain words, so we need more social experience to understand how people think. Actually, you are quite innocent because you don't have any intention to hurt him. On the other hand it is unfair to him too. You need to remedy this.
The best thing to do is to try to contact him, admit that you may have said something wrong but it you don't have any bad intention. He should have sufficient courage to accept your apology and forgive you.
However, it is also possible that he may reject your apology. In this case, you do not have to be unhappy because he is so unforgiving and even though you have done the needful to apologize. Take it easy dear, these things happen to everyone.
- Reply cestlavie
- the situation it's complecated, if apologies is useful, i did so in advance, but i didn't, as i know it's useless now.
sunnyv: Oh my god. You must have said something wrong that hurt his feelings. Everyone has different sensitivity to certain words, so we need more social expe ...
Maybe i should be more mature in future to avoid this same thing, it's all my fault.
- Reply cestlavie
- without any apologies, i already felt regret now
kelly513: Sorry to hear that, the best way is to apologize, otherwise you will regret.
- Reply sunnyv
- OK. You have learned a lesson. Let me give you some advice ....
cestlavie: the situation it's complecated, if apologies is useful, i did so in advance, but i didn't, as i know it's useless now.
Maybe i should be more mature i ...
It takes only less than 1 year to learn how to speak
but it takes a whole lifetime to learn what not to speak.
Understand?
- Reply samanthe
- If I were you, I will tell him my current feeling. Honestly you even don't know what's the mistake you have made. You should communicate with him about this matter, express your thought that is expecting he can point out your mistake, you will pay attention to it next time. Communication is the best way to solve problem, you need not to bear it alone.
- Reply cestlavie
- time will tell actually, but maybe if we do more things to improve, it's better.
Tange: time could help you to solve this problem ; let it go .
