Onec a circle missed a wedge. The circle wanted to be whole.And it went around looking for a missing piece.And because it was incomplete and therefore could roll only very slowly.It admired the flower along the way. It chatted with worms.It enjoyed the sunshine.And it found lots of different pieces,but none of them fit.It left them all by the side of the road and kept on searching. And then one day it found a piece that fit perfectly.It was so happy.Now it could be whole, with nothing missing.It incorporated the missing piece into itself and began to roll.Now that it is perfect circle.It could roll very fast. Too fast to notice the flower and to talk to the worm.When it realized how difference the world seeemedwhen it rolled so quickly.It stopped,left its found piece by the side of the road and rolled slowly away.
The lesson of the story, I suggested,was that in some strange sense we are more whole when we are missing something.The man who has every thing is in some ways a poor man.He will never know what it feels like to yearn to hope and to nourish his soul with dearm of something better.He will never know the experience of having someone who loves him give him something he has always wanted or never had
There is a wholeness about person who has come to terms to his limitation, who has been brave enough to let go of his unrealistic dearm and not feels like a failour for doing so.There is a wholeness about man and woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive,who can lost someone and still feel like a complete person.
Life is not a trap set for ue by God so that he can condemn us for failing.Life is not spelling bee, where no matter how many word you have gotten right,you are disqualified,if you make a mistake.Life is more like a baseball season,where even the beat team lose one-third of its games and the worst team has its days of brilliance.Our goal is to win more games than we lose.
When we accept the imperfection is part of being humen.When we can continue rolling through life and appreciate it.We will have achieved a wholeness that others can only apire to.That,I believe, was what God asks of us, not 'be perfect',not'don't even make a mistake',but'be whole'.
If you are brave enough to love,strong enough to forgive,general enough to rejoice another's happiness,and wise enough to know there is enough love to go around for us all,then we can achieve a fullfillment that no other living creature will ever know.