I just read a short story which I think has some philosophy in our life, thus I wrote it here in English to share for you.

One day, a smart professor asked his students a question:

“Why people are shouting when they feel angry?”

All students thought for a long time, one of them said:

“We shout, since we lost calm.”

The professor asked again:

“They are just on your side, why you must shout? Why not put your voice lower? Why you always shout?”

Almost all students said a lot, but none of them let the professor feel satisfied.

At last, the professor explained:

“When the two people are angry, their hearts has a great distances. For covering the distances between their hearts to let the other one can hear, so that they must shout.”

“But while they are shouting, they feel angrier. The angrier, the more distances. The more distances, the louder. ”

The professor went on to say:

“What will happen when two people fill in love? The case is reverse. They say everything with whisper, let alone to shout. Why? ”

“Since their hearts are close, almost have no distances between the two hearts, so that lovers always speck with whisper. With the love is deeper, they almost don’t need language.”

“They communicate just with their eyes. At that time, their hearts have no distances ever.”

Eventually, the professor has a conclusion:

“When two people are quarreling, don’t make their heart has more distances, and don’t say the words which will make their heart feel farther.”

“After a few days, wait for their heart don’t has distances anymore, then have a good talk.”