I like a saying very much,which is said by Maupassant who is a famous French novelist.
"Life can't be so good as you expected,or so bad as you imagined.
I think human vulnerability and perseverance are all beyond their own imagination.
Sometimes,humankind can be so frail that become tear-stained owing to a word.
At times,they can also find themselves have insisted on going a long way."
I am not convinced if it is suitbale for me,such a sentimental and pessimistic girl to interpret the philosophy of life to you all so frequently.It seems that this is a delicious irony to me.
In my opinions,the reason that we sometimes can't make our thoughts accord with our actions consists in our subconsciousness.
We are at intervals too conceited so that we may be crestfallen when we don't fulfil some goals.Consequently,we slide into another extreme,we become self-contemptuous.and then we may ignore the process.so the god begins playing with us.when we feel so difficult to finish something,but we succeed then.And vice visa.Thus,we feel everything we have done or are going to do never accord with what we thought and imagined.
Actually,everyone can't underestimate his or herself.We all possess our unique competence but sometimes we don't find it and exploite them.So when we have achieved something,we feel so strange and obsessed.
Many a outcome is beyond our imaginations.And everthing is bilateral.We are so plain and small to predict anything in this world.
Things are not always what they seem.
Don't go to extremes.just follow your nose to do what you think right and reasonable.there will exsist miracles anytime.
Life will sadden you or even make a mockery of you.but it can also bring you some unexpected surprises in nine cases out of ten.Chances are that it will give you something what you never expected before.
So don't be so dismal but full of optimisim.Be true yourself!
Diana~