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It has been nearly six months since I got married!
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It has been nearly six months since I got married!
I had to say that how time flies!Hehe.....
I was not a single girl but a female!I had to stand up some difficulties instead of asking for help
of my parents!I left my home where I lived for 26 years and stayed in my own home right now!It
is a difference for marriage life!Do you think so?
Right now we lived with mother-in-law and father-in-law while my husband worked far away
from home!I could not phone my classmates or friends or answer them too long or my
mother-in-law would ask me who I talked to every time she found me made calls!I could not stay
outsides too long as I had been married .I had to reduce the free activities!I lost freedom ,which
was another difference!
I had to face to the way of the world!Some persons are going to married, so I have to give the
new couples money as handsels!Some persons were not in a good health,I had to go to hospital to
see them and give money for them!And some persons and so on!It is a big spending as many
persons are going to be married !It is the third difference!
I was not a childish person as I had to become mature day by day after marriage!If you still showed
frank,you would be considered to be an infirm person!There was an elder brother ,who had been
married and had two children besides the younger sister who was going to be married on 1st,May,2010.
Though the elder brother had been married and lived far away from my own home,they four persons
still went to have lunch and supper with us every day!It was suitable for them to give mother-in-law 200
yuan to eat while it was not reasonable for me to give them 200 yuan as only I ate at home!So I just gave
her 100 yuan once I had money as our company did not give our salaries in time!What a bad thing for me!
I just took such thing for an example !There were too many things to deal with!I had to be wise and
mature ,which was the fourth difference!
How about your marriage life?
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Post comment Comment (24 replies)
- Reply ly.identity
- - -, I'm totally a stranger to the world you live in...
- Reply binbinyouli
- I think you are unlucky.But you have to face all of the things. You have no choice but to go on your life.
- Reply jollity2002
- ly.identity: - -, I'm totally a stranger to the world you live in...Oh?
You will know when you get married!
- Reply jollity2002
- zgqq2050: That is life，all of these will with you of lifetime.Life is not an easy thing ,which I know after marriage!
- Reply jollity2002
- binbinyouli: I think you are unlucky.But you have to face all of the things. You have no choice but to go on your life.Maybe such things can make me much more maturer!
Hehe......
- Reply moli
- Do your best to take your mother-in-law and father in-law as your mother and father.
Hope you are happy everyday!
- Reply jollity2002
- zgqq2050: Life is not easy before marriage too.I agree to you!
But it is much more difficult after marriage than being single!
- Reply jollity2002
- moli: Do your best to take your mother-in-law and father in-law as your mother and father.I am trying my best!
Hope you are happy everyday!
Many thanks!
Hope you are in a good mood every minute!
- Reply jollity2002
- fairy0612: Then I think I may as well stay single as long as I can...We have to face to the marriage life though it is not an easy thing!You will be luckier than me in my opinion!
Hehe.....
Good luck!
- Reply jollity2002
- fleaf: Anyway, Hope you get the right choiceI will try my best to deal with things with wise and calm head !
Thanks!
- Reply fairy0612
- jollity2002: We have to face to the marriage life though it is not an easy thing!You will be luckier than me in my opinion!Thank you for saying that
Hehe.....
Good luck!
- Reply jollity2002
- fairy0612: Thank you for saying thatYou are welcome!
I do not want to make you misunderstand marriage life!
I just describe my marriage life!
Riht?
Hehe.....
- Reply fairy0612
- jollity2002: You are welcome!maybe I am just accustomed to the single life as I have now. more freedom, less concerns.
I do not want to make you misunderstand marriage life!
I just describe my marriage life!
Riht?
Hehe.....
- Reply jollity2002
- fairy0612: maybe I am just accustomed to the single life as I have now. more freedom, less concerns.Hehe.....
Try your best to find your Mr.Right who treats you better!
You also have to consider the family of your Mr.Right as a most
important facor as you have to face to such family after marriage!
I admire your freedom !
Hehe.....
I also have to be mature than being single!
- Reply philip_24
- moli: Do your best to take your mother-in-law and father in-law as your mother and father.That is a very important point, especially the relationship with mother-in-law!
Hope you are happy everyday!
