Love is not about “It’s your fault,” but “I’m sorry.”

Not “where are you,” but “I’m right here.

Not “how could you,” but “I understand.”

Not “I wish you were,” but “I’m thankful you are.”

I see those words on a book, and I wonder that what is love, though people has been discussing about it since we human being exist. Though love is the eternal topic of human, and millions of celebrities and masters have made descriptions and comments of it, people in all times still be confused and crazy about it.

Some of my friends are in emotional trouble.

Most people are virtuous and they don’t want to hurt anyone.

And the matters come when someone they don’t like send love signal to them. They are just not good at dealing with those things, well, so am I. They just keep struggling to find a way to refuse others without hurting them. But I know that, if you gonna refuse somebody after all, then, he/her must be hurt in the end, sooner or later.

If you love someone deeply, even you feel miserable, painful and tearing, you won’t hurt him/her in whatever condition, you’d rather to choose bearing all pains on your own than to make him/her hurt. To hurt yourself or to hurt him/her, it is all depended on you love or not.

May all lovers be happy, and do your best to cherish the one you love when you’re together. Because we just can’t get control of our life, our relationships in many times, and time does change things a lot.