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Should girls hang out with your male friends?

780 views. 2009-8-9 16:18 |

 I am wondering if really a girl cannot hang out with her male friend?

 

 Mother told me that you can communicate with each other by messages, telephones, QQ, letters and etc. But you cannot make an appointment just for seeing each other. Such kind of things can only do with your futured boyfriend . There is actually difference between you two. By the same time, mother tells me that she is willing to allow me to take part in the friend’s bee,which has many people chatting together. That kind of things is normal. Nothing specsial.

 

But when out with a boy,things are totally different. Cause you two are alone,the relationship between you just like the lovers. If the two don’t agree with this,at least the other people in the society would like to talk about it. No matter it’s misconceptions or fact. The point is, you could not go out singly with a boy in the purpose of seeing each other. You just can hang out with your male colleagues,whom you have common and work cooperations to do.

So what’s your opions?

Post comment Comment (28 replies)

Reply Go_ES 2009-8-9 16:38
first as a boy, if there are some female friends going out with me, that is ok that is fine. Nothing special.
and in my view, to a girl, at first, you must make sure that you know this guy whom you are gonna hang out with deeply and correctly. And don't care what other people would take about unless you have a boyfriend or someone loves you secretly.
Reply byrongao102 2009-8-9 19:10
oh.don't be so nervous!
Reply jane664889828 2009-8-9 20:34
In my opinion, as a girl, if you have boyfriend, you'd better not go out with other male friends.
Reply I.S. 2009-8-9 21:44
why not?....I have a lot of female friends and use to went out together(but surely not after I've a girlfriend,she will kill me)...come on, it's 21 century now, hanging out together does not necessarily mean lovers,why so care about others opinions?
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-10 09:34
jane664889828: In my opinion, as a girl, if you have boyfriend, you'd better not go out with other male friends.
Why?
Just because the other people's misundersanding?
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-10 09:50
Go_ES: first as a boy, if there are some female friends going out with me, that is ok that is fine. Nothing special.
and in my view, to a girl, at first, you
Then if the fact is that this boy is someone who vindicated to the girl  in the past. But she refused him. And now the two are still friends. In effect, the girl is not sure about what the boy is thingking about. Does he still persist in persuing the girl ?
So should this girl hang out with that guy?
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-10 09:53
I.S.: why not?....I have a lot of female friends and use to went out together(but surely not after I've a girlfriend,she will kill me)...come on, it's 21 ce
What would you  say if the boy is someone who used to vindicating to the girl?
And you two are now friends.
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-10 09:55
byrongao102: oh.don't be so nervous!
Haha. This is not a question about nervous things.
Still thanks for coming here.
Reply Go_ES 2009-8-10 12:54
Cuiping: Then if the fact is that this boy is someone who vindicated to the girl  in the past. But she refused him. And now the two are still friends. In effec
oh~maybe you should not `~unless you sure about what the boy is thinking about~~
Reply I.S. 2009-8-10 17:05
Cuiping: What would you  say if the boy is someone who used to vindicating to the girl?
And you two are now friends.
ooooooops, that's a tough question...I think it should depend on the girl's feeling, not her parents'
Reply 张霖anxiety 2009-8-10 23:27
exactly yes
i support the view which you should go out with him
just my opinion
Reply kotori 2009-8-11 00:42
I think is OK.But if I go out with some male friends,sometimes I will feel embarrass.After all he's not my boyfriends.
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-11 11:48
I.S.: ooooooops, that's a tough question...I think it should depend on the girl's feeling, not her parents'
Exactly, the girl don't want to be the boy's girlfriend.
But she want to be his friend,common friend.
Then can they hang out together alone?
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-11 11:53
张霖anxiety: exactly yes
i support the view which you should go out with him
just my opinion
But you don't know what he is thingking about.
Does he want to persist in persuing that girl and be friends just a excuse?
Or he does really forget you and just want to be your friend?
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-11 11:56
Go_ES: oh~maybe you should not `~unless you sure about what the boy is thinking about~~
Yeah! You are right.
You have a sensible brain.
If we are not sure about something,we'd better not to do it.
Reply Go_ES 2009-8-11 13:45
Cuiping: Yeah! You are right.
You have a sensible brain.
If we are not sure about something,we'd better not to do it.
^^
Reply Bobxiao 2009-8-11 16:10
if u have a boyfriend,u can not go out with other male friends.
Reply I.S. 2009-8-11 18:14
Cuiping: Exactly, the girl don't want to be the boy's girlfriend.
But she want to be his friend,common friend.
Then can they hang out together alone?
hardly......if they do, the boy may misread this signal for "I still have a chance"...
Reply jane664889828 2009-8-12 09:41
Cuiping: Why?
Just because the other people's misundersanding?
Yeah,to some extent. But I think you should consider your boyfriend's feeling if you have one.
Reply Cuiping 2009-8-12 11:31
I.S.: hardly......if they do, the boy may misread this signal for "I still have a chance"...
Yeah!
It seems that it is the only way to keep their relationship.So will they just be online friends?
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