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Friends and strangers

Hot 1671 views. 2015-4-22 17:10

       When being order , we would  find the sad truth that our intimate friends are still those we made before at school.  When i was still a student, i' ve heard the saying that you would not make a real friend you after stepping into society , for the relationship with workmate would inevitablely be based on financial benefit. You are workmates but competitor also. Thus this kind of  relationship can not be called rea friendship. Well, Is there any possibility for us to buid a pure friendship with others?
        In today's society , everyone seems lead such a terriblely busy life that most of us don't have time to greet with each other any longer when meeting  on the street. Every morning, we must rush to offices in order not to be late and reproached by our leaders . During the working, we are told the effectiveness should be put on the top place. After work, we are also hurried to go home for dinner or make a date with friends. You see, so many things to do! And on weekend we could not bear  the dullness of life and want to  find kinds of entertaiments urgently. What's more, the advanced technology nowadays also  offer us the various enjoyments: travelling, film , on-line games and etc, which can meets all our needs .   With these entertaiment, of course, we don't have to be with others and  enjoy these totally by ourselves.   So It's normal that on rush time everyday, people on metro no one would talk to  or even take a glimpse of the other,even though they stand face to face. Our actual distance is so close but the distance between hearts is so far.   It's being a long time we  are in and have already got used to this kind of social enviroment as well.
         I guess that's one of the reasons we hardly make real friends on society. But sometimes i really not think it's hard for us to get real friendship with stranger only if you are sincere and kind. Or aren't you feeling too lonely and indifferent living in this kind of world?
 

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Reply sunnyv 2015-5-9 01:30
Seems real personal friendships are fast disappearing, replaced by electronic friendships like wechat, QQ etc. It seems strange if we ask our friends to go to countryside have a walk and talk heart to heart about the things we face. My friends told me that even calling friends on the phone just to talk can be seen as a disturbance as they prefer to chat or they are busy on some apps or electronic games.

People could become emotionless robots if thing goes on like this. Lets put aside those electronics and care about our friends and the people around us.
Reply qianwen 2015-5-11 11:25
sunnyv: Seems real personal friendships are fast disappearing, replaced by electronic friendships like wechat, QQ etc. It seems strange if we ask our friends  ...
Yes,indeed. Sometims i' d like to make a phone call with friend rather  than tapping on the screen and sending message.

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