One of my friends was forced to lose his lover a few months ago, he had being sad all the way till now. And most of the occasions is that the parents of the girl don't accept a boy; it went the same with him. He couldn't get a clear reason why his would-be wife's parents refused him. And he missed her girlfriend so much that he nearly asked the same question to his girlfriend every night--'Is there another chance for our love? Can you give me another opportunity?' His girlfriend, though love him deep in the heart, couldn't give him a clear answer under the pressure of her parents. They kept in touch with each other by calling and chatting online. The situation lasted for two months before change arrived. My friend couldn't stand such a vague relationship with his ever-girlfriend for he loved her heartfully.  He began to reduce the contact with her; he began to drank a lot outside, and after that he usually phoned her girlfriend, requiring her to be his wife strongly. Once, he chatted with me online, when talking about his girlfriend, he told me her heart would die if losing his girlfriend and he had made up his mind not to be so timid as before. He would express himself loudly in front of his girlfriend!

     Truely, as a best friend of his, i know he was shy and ingoing, and at the same time, he is an easy-going boy, who did everything carefully and attentively. No one can find fault with him. To tell the truth, i once dreamed one day he became my Mr. right. But now, it seems that he wants to get her girlfriend desperately without caring about others' views on him!   

     Yes, being in love is powerful. But i want to say that losing love can be also powerful. I  want to give my best wishes towards my friend here and i hope that he can keep optimistic towards life. Now i'm also experiencing some troubles in my life, i think communication is in a vital position and understanding is the only way to help ourselves out.