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Life encounter numerous obstacles now and then, we always think that if I didn’t chose this how about now will be? But there is not so many “if “in our life. We have to accept the results in peace once we made a decision.
I can’t accept my such a big family for a long time, it’s so hard for me to balance the complicated relationship also. I chose to ignore their complaint when I’m tired. As I have no the ability to improve their relationship. After I entered the society , I try to persuade myself （my elder brother and his wife）to stand the other side, we love our father so much. I accept my big family from my heart in the recent years, and thanks for god grant me so many family member.
In the last few days I made a decision that I don’t know right or not. My best friend said that you are so kind and take other’s feeling into account, maybe the result is not as you expected in the future. Indeed, if you are often praised as “you are so kind. Friendly. Generous”, maybe the decision you made is not good for yourself. I’m the person who can't take care of herself but can take good care of others.
Only serious efforts will be amply rewarded, i believe that
if you are excellent/kind enough, everything will be ok. 
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- Reply sunnyv
- God choose your family for you.
They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.
Life and family is like a blanket too short.
You pull it up and your feet feels cold,
you yank it down then your shoulder freeze;
but a smart girl like you would know how to
bend knees up and pass a very comfortable night.
Sometimes you have to think before extending help to others.
There is no use trying to help people who do not help themselves.
You cannot push anyone up a ladder unless he is willing to climb himself.
- Reply samanthe
- absolutely you are right，nobady can compel us to do something we are not willing to. just sometimes we will make some decisions which are not good for us as you want do somebody a favor or something else .
sunnyv: God choose your family for you.
They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.
Life and family is like a blanket too short.
You pull it up and you ...
for my family，just as you know, I'm totally accept them as my family, although it's still have complicated relationship,as long as I love them,I believe those things can be handled easily.and the other members can feel it,we are family.
I have strived for it for many years, sometime it's really upset me,and tired. But as a Leo girl. I feel happy more than sad. Fighting
