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Yesterday, mom had a talk with me after dinner. She complained of some unsatisfaction with my sister to me. Because my sister didn't send her a gift to her after a trip.She said that she didn't really want the gilf but the care . I listened to her and didn't agree with her. I felt my mom like a child who wanted to get a present from parents. I said to her that my sister might be busy with taking care of her childen and forgot to buy some prensents. It was also that my sister had no ideas of the presents but that didn't means she ignore you.My mom just said she always forgot and be disappointed. I had no ideas of my mom and was angry with her. At last mom had no words to me. I thought i hurt my mom and felt sorry to her. In fact i didn't in her side. That's not fair.No matter what i have to say sorry to my mom.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Talking to parents and the elderly, we have think the way they think. Clearly, your mom don't really need the present but she need the meaning behind the present. Well, you know she needs to show off to relatives and friends... "ah my daughter brought me a present". Parents life are so simple and they derive happiness from these small things. Furthermore, it is your duty as a son to comfort and assure them that you care about them, so you have to do that. You seem to be a filial son so I am sure you know what to do.
- Reply DioScofield
- sunnyv: Talking to parents and the elderly, we have think the way they think. Clearly, your mom don't really need the present but she need the meaning behindah~ you are absolutely right on my mom's thought.They are simple and derive happiness from these small things.I know how to deal with the things between my mom and elder. Thank you so much!
- Reply cestlavie
- maybe you could do something to make her happy, i guess she would not angry with you longer. I always quarrel with my parents before, but it's ok now, so dont worry, do what you could do to make her delighted.
- Reply DioScofield
- cestlavie: maybe you could do something to make her happy, i guess she would not angry with you longer. I always quarrel with my parents before, but it's ok now,Thank you for your attention. Yes, we should forgive our parents' mistakes and respect them.
