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A girl and a boy were in love for nearly 4 years. They set up deep emotional foundation, though they met each other first time by the net. After four years' time.The boy was familiar with girl's family and got along well with them. Both their family including the boy were planning the wedding for them after they graduated and worked for a period of time. It looked calm and smooth but you never knew the storm was coming.
Before the story , I wanted to tell the information of the young more detail. It benefited for DIO friends knowing more and helping them more. Firstly,I introduced the boy. In the eyes of their friends, he was a good boy and took care of his girlfriend carefully. In fact, he was and did his best to make the girl happy. He love her so deeply even sacrifice his life. He was sure the girl was the most suitable person to be his wife.
The girl was kind and pretty. When they met first time, she was moved by boys's behavior, but not his appearance. This was one point of girl's regret. However,it didn't stop them to fall into love. Like others they had two big quarrels until now. But finally they still walked together. The most big problem was that the girl suspect her love to boy was not from heart just for four year's emotion .Now it's time to talk about the marriage. The girl was scared and had not faith in herself. She didn't have the courage to break the relationship but his heart made her insecure. She talked the boy with the tears falling down.
The boy was really hurt but did his best to repair feelings. He said lots of things to proof that the feeling was temporary and it would go one day. It looked didn't work . At last the boy said the over to the girl but this wasn't his saying from his heart. Now both of them are hurt. The boy was regreted and not great enough.The girl was also miserable for her guity and sorry. Furthermore, they have the pression from their families and friends.They didn't want to explain the reason to people one by one. It was really a sorrow thing.
What's your opinion about them. Are there some methods to keep this valued emotion?If you were one of them, what should you do.
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- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- Four years is a period long enough to tell your love to the other is true or not, isn't it?
- Reply DioScofield
- IMNONARCISSUS: Four years is a period long enough to tell your love to the other is true or not, isn't it?Yes, it's true. But it is not the key to persuade the girl. The girl's thought was always uncertain.
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- DioScofield: Yes, it's true. But it is not the key to persuade the girl. The girl's thought was always uncertain.You surely should know what actually the problem is. Why is she changeable?
- Reply DioScofield
- IMNONARCISSUS: You surely should know what actually the problem is. Why is she changeable?Actually i just knew above of all. The problem maybe in it. The most important thing towards boy is that how to seek the girl again. You girls know more about girls. So what do you think of it?
- Reply Tange
- the love taste sweet, but when it broken it creat the pain for each other , witnessed the lover became strangers , we can do nothing for them ; just hope them can recover by theirslves ..
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- God, I'm no a girl. A man I am! Moreover, I am afraid the girl is kind of irresolute to her character.
- Reply DioScofield
- IMNONARCISSUS: God, I'm no a girl. A man I am! Moreover, I am afraid the girl is kind of irresolute to her character.
Sorry, your head photo gave me an illusion. Thank you so much.
- Reply DioScofield
- Tange: the love taste sweet, but when it broken it creat the pain for each other , witnessed the lover became strangers , we can do nothing for them ; just hBest wishes!
- Reply Tange
- we all need to realize that the more we stay stuck in the past, we stay more hurts , we stay in victims . the ones who broken-love need to start a fresh life ..
- Reply DioScofield
- Tange: we all need to realize that the more we stay stuck in the past, we stay more hurts , we stay in victims . the ones who broken-love need to start a frYes, you said right. My suggestion for the boy is that don't think too much and distract attention. Time will give him an answer. Thank you for your advice.
- Reply freefu55
- It's a sad thing that the girl didn't get well known the boy and their love through four years.
- Reply DioScofield
- freefu55: It's a sad thing that the girl didn't get well known the boy and their love through four years.Love is a mystery thing. Different people have different definition
- Reply DioScofield
- loly90: What belong to you cannot be stolen away, what not belong to you cannot be forced.Yes, so i'll give her some time to think about it, then give me an answer.
- Reply freefu55
- DioScofield: Love is a mystery thing. Different people have different definitionNice.
- Reply Jamesonhao
- Marriage-fear syndrome? yes, girl is always the most difficult to be understood, but there must be a reason why a girl becomes so unbelivably emotional. The two yong, boy and girl, now must drop down something they had believed so much, so they can move on and get the relationship back to normal and peace.
- Reply DioScofield
- Jamesonhao: Marriage-fear syndrome? yes, girl is always the most difficult to be understood, but there must be a reason why a girl becomes so unbelivably emotionaYou said right. Someone should make concessions.
- Reply Caroline12432
- Maybe the girl cannot distinguish whether she is just accustomed to the boy or really loves him from her heart. What she needs is time. If the boy really loves her, I believe he is willing to wait for her anwer.
