Once again, I lock myself out of the home today. What makes it even worse is my husband left for business trip this afternoon. So, as the only one stayed in Beijing, I have no choice but to ask for the locksmith’s help. I blame myself of course, because I do forget to put my keys and wallet into my handbag. But I also blame him, he brought the backup keys with him, which I suppose it will be always in there and any members of the family may use it whenever needed.

After the frustrated incident, he argued with me for a couple of times and his point is I should keep my keys and wallet for always. I think it is fair enough to say so. But, both of us aren’t careful enough and should accountable for our part, that is also the truth. And apparently, he doesn’t think so. ‘When you make mistake, admit it and change your behavior will just be fine’. He didn’t realize that.

Whether in a relationship or in a marriage, you can’t always be the winner, step back and fail for one time, then you have chance to win the next round. Don’t let yourself be the king or queen of your family. Respect others, respect yourself.