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926 views. 2011-5-28 10:39

It is long time not to write blogs,and some friends in DilEnglish forget me ,right?haha...
A few days ago,I visited a boy who was introduced by one of my mother's colleagues.We met at the uncle's home.At the begining of our talk,the boy said about his situation,including his work,his emotional background and how hard he had lived from a boy in a country to a mutural man.

He was a soldier in a miltary ,and his hometown was in a small town in Shandong that I coudn't call it name.

At that night,he telephoned me and invited me to go outside with him. I happily replied. On the next morning of that month,he took me  to the park near by and had a good time together.But step by step,he hardly made a telephone on me . Since I knew he was a driver ,a particular job,I can understand his difficulties.But a few days later,he did not call me at all. My family told me not to call him and make friends with him any longer.At the begining,I still insisted. but on one afternoon which I was about to go shopping with my friend,I met him that he drove in a car,I and he saw each other in a second. I felt he saw me at that moment and he did stop and say anything.

At that moment, I felt so sorry and so sad.That day,I went on shopping with my friend .Later on, I told my family and said to myself not to think about him any longer.

But I can't now.I know he do not deserve .

I just feel very confused about it.can you give me some advice?

I need your help!

Post comment Comment (8 replies)

Reply lwj2k8 2011-5-28 11:51
Double look? In fact, you don need overly concern about that....Well, a dating with a guy which was arranged by your parents..... It could happen once, then maybe it can takes place once again someday....But anyway, it is only a segment of your life.....From your blog, I guess he perhaps is not your Mrright, but he did not lie to you, right?.....Love is an interactional event....However, i suggest you make the choice following your heart.....Good luck! :P
Reply karen_2009 2011-5-28 12:16
lwj2k8: Double look?In fact, you don need overly concern about that....Well, a dating with a guy which was arranged by your parents..... It could happe
Thanks for your advice!Yes,you are right.
follow my heart!thank you ,anyway.
Reply cabin 2011-5-28 15:00
just let it be.
you do what you want to do.
let the time help you to make the decision.
about now,  to wait, wait your heart to tell you real feeling.
don't hurry to make any decision.
Reply sunnyv 2011-5-28 15:11
Looks like to did not do anything wrong. You did just what you need to do.

The thinking of men are very complicated. He could evaluating himself and testing his value in your eyes or mind. He could be having a superior feeling waiting for you to approach him. There could also be something about his background which is bothering him. There is no excuse for his sudden withdrawal. You have every right to know the reason. Be brave enough to approach him and ask him what happened. Get ready to tell him that should he fail to give you a believable answer, you would drop him. Everyone has self esteem. Let him regret for the loss of such a lovely girlfriend. Bless you.
Reply rich 2011-5-28 16:17
i agree with sunny. in china girls are expected to act passively when it comes to courtship or dating. however, we're in the 21 century. you can also take the initiative in asking him out and find out the real reason for his withdrawl. of course you should be prepared for all possibilities.
Reply karen_2009 2011-5-30 10:55
cabin: just let it be.
you do what you want to do.
let the time help you to make the decision.
about now,  to wait, wait your heart to tell you real feeling.
Thanks anyway.I will.
Reply karen_2009 2011-5-30 11:00
sunnyv: Looks like to did not do anything wrong. You did just what you need to do.

The thinking of men are very complicated. He could evaluating himself and
thank you for your sincere advice.Although I don't know what should
I do next,I appreciate that .thank you!
Reply karen_2009 2011-5-30 11:05
rich: i agree with sunny. in china girls are expected to act passively when it comes to courtship or dating. however, we're in the 21 century. you can also
thank you for your advice.but for me,I just can't have a next step!
maybe it is a big difference between man and woman.

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