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yesterday one of my friend sent a short message to me that express some special feeling.
At that momnent , my mobile photo on my BF's bag. when he saw it, he was so angry that he called the boy who sent the text message. He speaked loudly, i didn't know why he became so rude. Maybe, this is what he is.
At that moment, i was afraid and sad. In my mind, he was a confortable guy. Whatever he did, he would take my feeling into account. While he just did what he thought he was right.
when i told this to my parents and my sister, they all said that this guy is not so kind. MOREOVER, his hometown is in Henan, while i am from Jiangxi. You never make sure what would happened in future. This is a big problem. Maybe , he was not so kind as i thought. Nobody can help me, all of them said that this is my own life, my own choice , i should deal with it by myself.
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- Reply moli
- do you take him as your boy friend?if your answer is "yes",it is natural for him to get angry,because he cares about you.
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- while he didn't believe me at all , right?
As a boy friend , he should take my feeling into account, i can't stop others sent or call me, because this is their free. what's more, i let him to see the message and i delete it and didn't reply anything, why he still did such thing? It means that i have no private space at all, isn't it? if it is , i would have no friend ,am i right?
- Reply linda_guo
- chinagirlhappy: while he didn't believe me at all , right?why did you put your mobile phone into his bag? what's worse, why did you let him see your message?
As a boy friend , he should take my feeling into account, i can't stop others sent or call me, because this
you don't respect and protect your own privacy, of course, neither him.
- Reply Lydialiu
- you also should take his feeling into consideration,you are his the most intimate person for the others ,but you should keep a distance between you and him .having a heart-to-heart conversion meybe the best way to solve it
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- Lydialiu: you also should take his feeling into consideration,you are his the most intimate person for the others ,but you should keep a distance between you anThanks for your advice, actually, we had a heart to heart conversation yesterday night. I just have a little doult about our affection. From other side, i know more about him, maybe, it is a good thing for both of us.
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- linda_guo: why did you put your mobile phone into his bag? what's worse, why did you let him see your message?I put my cell phone to him and let him know my messages, because i thought that he would be believe me just like i trust him. In my view, if we love each other, we should respect ench other. If i really have some special relation with other boys , it is unfair to him. I didn't betray him, that's why i can let him see my messages.
you don't respect and protect your own privacy, o
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- what should i do ? Yesterday we chatted more than one hour. I told him my feeling and my thought. It seems that i was satisfied of his reply. I didn't know if it is because i love him that i just wanted to think the good aspects and ingore the bad ones? Are all the people have to experience this process? That is a common problem for the young men, isn't it?
- Reply anda.yan
- I don't like henan people,but the time i think your BF is right .
he loves you so much,cares about you .
If this time your BF readed your short message ,but nothing .then you should ask us :what should i do..
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- anda.yan: I don't like henan people,but the time i think your BF is right .May i know why you don't like the henan people? Hehe, at the beginning, i am happy that he care me so much, then, i found this is a rude way to deal with something. Don't you think so?
he loves you so much,cares about you .
If this time your BF readed your short messag
- Reply chinagirlhappy
- anda.yan: Agree with you .May i know which province 's people are kind?
