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marriage is a long way to myself , i have not had any preparation for it . i saw the photos from my classmates who have had marriage , she was more fat than before , and we were not in the same city now . she and her husband knew each other from university and got well with each other , they are from different city , one is from north and the other from south . it was difficult that the love from school can go on today , there are quarrel , unhappiness , happiness, smiling and tear , any feeling shows from themselves . as the comprehend and understanding they have , so they are happiness from the beginning till now . they have no magnificent wedding , no romantic honeymoon time , only a marriage photo and a marriage certification , everything seems easy , simple and low .
i like the low style at marriage , i do not need any guests , i do not need wedding ceremony , i do not need feast , i do not need much attention for my wedding , as the wedding belongs to the two person , not to others . and marriage means you should think over more and more , you are not alone , you belong to the family ,you will have more duties . i think i could not be used for the marriage life at least present. it was a constraint like the tie circle Guanyin wore to him compelling . sometimes i thought that marriage was a terrible business , lost yourself , devote to others .
now more and more lovers do not choose marriage , they get toghter many years only lack of the paper , which certificate the marriage has the right of law . more and more lovers think the paper is not useful , so they do not need duty ,and they can leave any time and there are not many troubles occour , as the paper makes lovers tired , at least now i think it is true . but it does not mean the lovers do things unconcernedly .
they do work for their life , house , baby , and future . we could not earn a house as we are common staffs , so house loans is the biggest pressure for us , we could not pay out the loan till we are old , maybe not . also we could not want to depend on our parents , we grow up , we also know they have no ability to support us , they are old , it is not their duty , they should enjoy life they have , but we are the one they worry and concern forever . no matter where we are , no matter what we do , no matter how we are , there is worry from them .
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- Reply 刺猬
- moli: The greatest happiness for woman is to possess a sweet marrige.then what is happiness for the marriage
- Reply jollity2002
- Every one should be married when one grows up!
Hehe....
- Reply ly.identity
- Then our parents first concern is our marriage, I think. Though I am at campus still, my Mother has already urged me many times to find a ..
I agreed with you. Marriage can be explained in many ways, but one of the most important meanings, is its responsibility.
