There are many ways to make friends ,in the past ,if you were classmates , you can be friends , if you were colleagues, you can be friends , if you were roommates ,you can be friends, by friend's introduction ,you can meet some new friends . But nowdays internet has become another way to make friends and also a way to be in love with others,namely "online love " or " cyber love". I am a chinese traditional woman , in fact I am not in favor of this way. everyone is born to be a actor or actress .They can play all kinds of roles they like in virtual space , sometime you cant tell he or she is young or old. you dont know she or he is good or bad , beautiful or ugly , maybe you are just attracted by his or her voice, perhaps they will be so good that they really want to help you , perhaps they are so bad that they make you fall in love with them. In our real life ,we are easy to reject a person we dislike by her or his appearance at the fist sight. But in virtual space we can accept all kinds of people at the first time, cant we? Just like someone always ask me "which actor or actress do you like most", to be honest , I dont like to worship someone ,if let me say ,I only say I like the roles they play in movies or TV series,not real "them". so perhaps we only like "virtual them" in the internet. while I am back to real life and think that how many people are not in disguise?