in my opinion love can be classfied into the big love and the small love.i simply cite the words spoken by mr obama during his dialoguing with the shanghai youth.
"The one last piece of advice, though, that I would have that has been useful for me is the people who I admire the most and are most successful, they're not just thinking only about themselves but they're also thinking about something larger than themselves. So they want to make a contribution to society. They want to make a contribution to their country, their nation, their city. They are interested in having an impact beyond their own immediate lives".it can be said to be the big love.
the another one is
" I think so many of us, we get caught up with wanting to make money for ourselves and have a nice car and have a nice house and -- all those things are important".
generally guys who are not just thninking only about themselve but thinking aboutsomething larger than themseve mostly are successful. i remember several years ago i read the biography of a famous japanese enterpriser who shares a story with his readers. since the book i read is its chiense version,i can try to translate it into english.according to the book, the story is invented by the founder of the intel, who often likes to tell it to his empoloyees.i have dim memories to the name of the places related to the story.
it tells that a big gang of wild geese always fly to C place from A place in winter because of the coldness.as the long jouney,they should have to rest on the B place for a while to add extra energy like drinking some water,eating some food. after having passed the winter they should come back to the A place. it circulates each year.in one winter when the gang of wild geese just flied to B place to have a rest. and then it snowed heavily in b place. so the geesecan not find any water and food to drink or eat.when they were at their last gasps,suddenly (a smiling angel,oh.not the angel).an old farmer who is very very kind and is called the god or the Santa Claus by their neighbors saved them,giving them delicious food,warm water which made the geese feel like at home.:-). so the geese forgot the coldness and hunger and most of them refused to fly to C place to pass the winter. so they lived there with the Santa Claus.
if the story ends with this ,it is comfortable to tell to little kids or angels to make them sleep faster .at last the old famer died, and the geese still stayed there waiting for someone sending them food.
this time no god appeared.and the geese only had to come into the heaven to look for the old farmer giving them food .