Empathy---the ability to imagine and share another person's feelings,experience...
Often,I just resented that somebody do not understand my thoughts,that's enough,but worsely,they suspected me---my will.
So~~~like this ,those remarks became something unpopular on my mind.I can struggle my aim as usual and just turn a blind eye to them.
Until one day I talked to you on the phone,your words enlightened me.Yes,definitely these doubtness are priceless treasures.
I learned to think it another way,changing my thinking mode.We can regard these misunderstandings and doubtness as love,then try to cultivate our tolerant ability.
In our way to success we can take it easy.Life is pretty.
None of our relatives and friends want us fail during our process of pursuing.All us have to do is to think something more in others' shoes.Therefore,your life is full of sunshine,and most important,as a Chinese saying gose:To know your enemy and know yourself,and you can fight a hundred battles with no danger of defeat.