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pain,then let go (痛了，就放下了)
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A younger gent to visit a monk on one of a famous Buddhism mountain. He felt extremely pain because his girlfriend left him to marry other man. He couldn’t figure out why she made such a final choice. He thought his beautiful girlfriend would follow him in his lifetime because they have once loved so deeply so warmly so hotly even both of them have once felt each of them couldn’t live without another. But few years passed over, when they graduated from campus, his lover hadn’t choosed him as her marriage partner. So he felt very pain, heaven collapsed, heart broken, with a helpless heart came onto the hill temple to seek his answer.
The monk heard his trouble and painful telling, nothing said except taking out a water cup, passed him. The young guy held the small cup, felt puzzled, because he didn’t feel any thirsty sense. Then the monk poured boiling water into the small cup, water outflowed from the monk’s kettle into his small cup slowly by slowly, over the cup bottom, over half line, up on and on, when the boiling water reached nearly the top, young guy said: “It’s enough”. But the monk seemed no ears, continued his pouring, suddenly, the overflowed boiling water out the cup top, his fingers felt a sudden boiled heat hurt, the small cup falled down to ground, broken.
Writing here, I thought of another words which is a father said to his son when his son left him to another city alone, the father said: “My son, you remember my words forever. In this world, nobody cann’t be replaced, nothing must be owned (没有人不可以代替，没有东西必须拥有) .If you view through this point, you will know it’s no matter in fact when your lover leave you.There is no the most love in the world. Love is only a sudden feeling while it will change with time and mood. If your so-called most love leave away from you, please wait for a while patiently, let time swash slowly, let mind subside slowly, your pain will be diluted. Don’t vision the love beauty excessively, don’t exaggerate the pain of losing love excessively too. ” (不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲)。
Sometimes, you can’t forget and may not forget, but you must let go. Maybe you will let go when pain someday. (你可以不忘记，但必须放下。痛了，就放下了。)
Post comment Comment (45 replies)
- Reply pheidippides
- The thing that you should drop, you cherish ,it make you painful.
The thing that you should appreciate ,you give up ,it make you regretful.
- Reply Geoff
- If two people really loved, said to give up, it should not be easy. But only gave up， two people will have a new beginning.
- Reply ring_in_love
- I still don't understand why his girlfriend gave him up...But maybe it is not the point of this article...
- Reply lyrebird06
- A love is the thing which is hardest to explain it clearly.
- Reply ly.identity
- I like the last sentence.
- Reply snowflying
- pheidippides: The thing that you should drop, you cherish ,it make you painful.the say surely Philosophial and profound. likt it.
The thing that you should appreciate ,you give up ,it make you regretful.
- Reply snowflying
- Geoff: If two people really loved, said to give up, it should not be easy. But only gave up， two people will have a new beginning.heheheee, my dear friend, what's yur meaning on earth? seems some contradictory in your point. you support lovers separate for a new beginning? or think lovers should be together? but no matter, i can understand your meaning hehe.
- Reply snowflying
- ring_in_love: I still don't understand why his girlfriend gave him up...But maybe it is not the point of this article...nice to meet you here,my friend. surely that's not a same question. we all wish lovers together and marry with each other, but in reality, always so many lovers can't be together finally too. maybe my words can release some pain,wish it be.
- Reply snowflying
- lyrebird06: A love is the thing which is hardest to explain it clearly.love is a beautiful words leading to happiness. but sometimes its taste is complex, difficult bittersweet, surely.
- Reply snowflying
- ly.identity: I like the last sentence.oh, dear yingying, the last sentence is the whole article's main meaning and thoughts. if who can do as its meaning, maybe some less pain. wish all lovers have no pain, esp you too,dear.
- Reply snowflying
- yaping: But most of time, we rather to take the pains than to lay down!oh? little, now you have some experience really? ohhhh, dear, i wish your love whether now or later sweet sweet sweet, no any pain, no necessiary to lay down anything, cheers.
- Reply JMZ
- pheidippides: The thing that you should drop, you cherish ,it make you painful.wow, so great! classical sentences~~~
The thing that you should appreciate ,you give up ,it make you regretful.
go ahead!
- Reply gossip
- Don’t vision the love beauty excessively, don’t exaggerate the pain of losing love excessively too. ” (不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲)。
- Reply zbl520520
- wom,amazing,In fact, I had heard the story about cup before.but your description are so meticulous and thorough,Your analysis distinctive and philosophy,so good so happy when a man lying in the sofa seeing the good article in the morning.
- Reply 逍遥飞吧
- l can recite the definition of love in the dictionary .but l cant understand it .l admire the warm love very much.
- Reply yaping
- snowflying: oh? little, now you have some experience really? ohhhh, dear, i wish your love whether now or later sweet sweet sweet, no any pain, no necessiary to lThank u!
- Reply Gllen
- love?that's a familiar topic,but i am still unfamiliar of it.i have heard this stroy which is chinese version.i think the monk is a very wisdom man and his acvice is a best answer to that younger.actually,if you love someone,giving her happy future is our best happiness.as a man,in one extent,i think it is hard for me to understand the women's thought.they are so complex and unintelligibly.hehe.....
