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Gone with the wind
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I miss Beijing. I miss Shuangqiao. I miss the severe icy wind at midnight in winter. All of these misses only come from one simple reason:I miss you.
I heard this touching song by Lady Adela-Someone Like You:I heard that you settled down ...that you married her..that you...Never mind. I will find someone like you...Every time when I heard this song those familiar-strange scenes flashed into my mind bitterly. People says if you can hold your flooding tears when you stumbled down along the memory lane , then you are cool to loose hand and let it go. The more you care, the more emotional reactions will rat you out, among which shedding tears is one.I cannot help it.
Thinking of you, I relive back on the memory lane. Happiness, sadness, helplessness, expectation, disillusion, I value all these precious moments with you. Recalling the past, all gone with the wind. Time judges. What can be left at last is the most valuable thing we should keep a whole life. Unfortunately we failed in the test host by Master Time.
Lady Huanghan, a host from a most popular dating program in China, once said that one should suffer or go through a broken relationship one or two times or even more times, thus one will know not everything you eager in life can be obtained no matter how much time and how many efforts it takes. The possitive effection this issue causes is that when you finally encounter the right person, you will know better how to love and value the life you are going to spend with this right one. Suffer bitterness first, gain sweetness at last and keep it forever.
In a sense, we should appreciate those who are not fated to be the one, because it is them teach us how to love.
