It’s started when people make the definition for the problems and issues that an increase of people are used to complain about everything around themselves and never feel happy even under a relative better circumstances compared with others. One of the reasons for these complaints is fate-believing.

As is known, different people got completely different attitudes under the circumstances when they are confronting with the problems or in another word, adversities, some of them cannot hold an optimistic mood when it’s hard for them to do something or being misunderstood, an obvious behavior of them is to complain, actually, the majority of them complains about other people since they are trying to attribute the reasons of problems to others instead of themselves, and there are also some of them tend to be more pessimistic which makes them ascribe the problem to their fates rather than other things like their capability of handling issues or maybe there are other settlements, under such a condition, in my mind, the adversity which you are facing will not be settled down, however, it will be more difficult for you to solve it if you trend to hold such a pessimistic thought.

However, what I think is the best thing to do when you are facing the difficulties is an optimistic mood and the belief that “I can do it!” such an easy principle is not hard to be understood but to be applied since under such a circumstances people in the world are more likely to hold a mood of pessimism due to the social environment-competition.

Let me explain this, the pressure comes from competition started when we are really young, maybe only 5 or 10, but it lasted through out your whole life, which tortures every person’s confidence every day, after being tortured many years, only few of people who are used to competitions can hold a calm mood and deal with the problems whereas other people’s confidences have been ruined a great number of times, as a result, it’s easy to explain why they are so pessimistic and try their best to avoid everything.

Frankly speaking, every one, every day is under some extent of pressures which come from almost every part of everyone’s daily life-works, studies, motions and so forth, the most important thing is how to confront these pressures, under what kind of mood to face them and how to tackle them rather than avert all the difficulties and issues with the reasons “fate-believing”.