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Better or Worse? That's a question

2199 views. 2012-2-22 11:06 |Individual Classification:Mummy's Whisper|

        Dear, I don’t know I should envy you or not. Certainly you have a lot to make me feel jealous. At the age of four, you already flied twice, went abroad, have tons of toys I’d never seen or heard of when I was at your age, which including a kid’s digital camera that you can really take pictures and videos with, a toy bear that can talk, sing and play with you, and today I ordered a Tote and Go laptop for you from one of the famous American’s shopping website.  

 

      Your very own laptop specially designed for the kids at your age!  Even in the wildest dream of my childhood, I could never image such things---Okay, who I am kidding with? Back the time when I was four years old, even the word “computer” was strange to most of the world.

 

      I just hope with it, you could learn something, anything----a few English words, numbers, words, logic and the other stuffs this toy laptop boast of----anything would do. Even if you learned nothing, it’s still OK---as long as it could help you find some joys of learning and catch some of your attentions away from “Plants VS Zombies”, I would feel it worth every dollar I spent.

 

       Should I envy you? What a question! Perhaps a bit, last time when I threatened to sell your camera if you didn’t behavior, that bluff had triggered your heart-breaking crying and you looked so miserable when you sitting there with tears streaming down your face, pouting. I kissed you all over and promised me that I would not do that---perhaps subconsciously I did envy you a little, just a tiny little. I got my first camera when I already worked, at your age, I didn’t even have a toy camera to play with.

 

        However it’s too soon to say who is the luckier generation, you or me. When I was your age, I didn’t have toys, I knew nothing about computer, and camera was just a distant, strangely word to me. But I had pals to play with and I spent most of my time outside. The whole neighborhood was our play yard. We chased butterflies in the corn fields, and it seemed that the whole world could be ours to explore. You, on the other hand, have to spend most of time indoors. When you got home, you don’t have any friends at your age to play. You had tons of toys, but what’s the fun if you had no one to share with?

 

       With this laptop, you could establish a pretend social networking world, where you could send postcards, visit and play with animal friends. At your age, it teaches you the keynote about modern society’s communication: we talk, we chatter, we share everything with our friends online but we seldom actually see them.

 

      Better or Worse?

 

 

Post comment Comment (27 replies)

Reply sunnys 2012-2-22 11:24
I think in different time ,there are different  childhood between us and our next generation.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-22 11:42
sunnys: I think in different time ,there are different  childhood between us and our next generation.
that's great idea! in either time, we all need to fit in. Adjustment is everything and it's important to enjoy what we've had
Reply Sheena1208 2012-2-22 15:52
Your little son is such a happy boy. I must study hard, work hard for the benefit of the next generation. Hiahia~
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-22 16:34
Sheena1208: Your little son is such a happy boy. I must study hard, work hard for the benefit of the next generation. Hiahia~
Certainly you are too young to consider that. my dear, and hope things would go better when you do have a baby. Now, resource is so limited and competition goes higher and higher.
Reply snowflying 2012-2-22 19:18
xiaoyu's pretty mum, i must say my thoughts about this question. though maybe my viewpoints don't same with yours.hehe... seems my old mistakes come true again, to pour out my brainin your space here...

any generation has any generation's advantage and disadvantage actually, so-called " trace for times". that's an objective imprint, can't change as ourselves' subjective thoughts. surrounding create human, so do anybody like so. we adults are like so, kids are like so too. Xiaoyu belongs to his times, that's certain. his times is full of moedern things more than ours. i prefer to believe that's a progress on our human's society, though some disavantages still exist at the same time. So , don't worry about it, that's his own world, and he will deal anything well when he grows up to a certain age, merely we parents should do some necessary desludging at some necessary moments, help himself in a balance in his growing course as we believe what is right value. that's the main role what we can do as a mum.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-23 10:55
snowflying: xiaoyu's pretty mum, i must say my thoughts about this question. though maybe my viewpoints don't same with yours.hehe... seems my old mistakes come t
You certain is an intelligent mum. Perhaps I think too much. You are right, adjustment is above everything. We can't change the surroundings, but we can learn to adapt to it. I don't believe old time is better, or the reverse---things have changed, that's all.
Reply shirleyytt2010 2012-2-23 11:34
wow, the laotop for your baby is very nice. You baby is living in a good family.You are such a great mother. Wish your baby can learn new things under your teaching.
Reply Jamesonhao 2012-2-23 13:05
Never heard or seen this cute CHILD toy, your kid should be no more happier. Guess you are questioning yourself whether it is right to buy him so much stuff, but you are happy because he is happy and healthy, so do whatever you want and give him whatever you can as long as it benefits his growth.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-23 14:45
shirleyytt2010: wow, the laotop for your baby is very nice. You baby is living in a good family.You are such a great mother. Wish your baby can learn new things under
Thanks, my dear. I just hope he could have some funs in learning. He will go to school in the next year and I want to prepare him well for the coming challenges.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-23 15:01
Jamesonhao: Never heard or seen this cute CHILD toy, your kid should be no more happier. Guess you are questioning yourself whether it is right to buy him so much
It's hard to strike a balance. always wonder if i made a right decision. Perhaps I did think too much
Reply Edelweiss 2012-2-24 15:27
a thought provoking article.
Reply rich 2012-2-25 20:38
the other day we talked about the same topic with my colleagues on the way to Jiaxing. is it a good thing or is it a positive development for kids today? or is it not a good thing or even worse or negative change? hard to say now. but one thing is certain that kids of different gerations have different childhood, different kinds of fun, excitement or aspirations. they seem to be luckier and happier but at the same time they are not able to enjoy what we were able to, things we took for granted, things that are simple but valuable. for us, the whole neighborhood, the whole area we were able to cover was our playground! how close we were to nature, how often we were together with other kids and adults!
Reply susiee 2012-2-26 21:43
Children are less than before because of the one child policy.So our child has less playmates but more electronic toys,more time with TV shows and computer games.When they gather together at school,what they are talking about are also those mobile phone games and cartoons.It does more harm than good,i think.It goes a little bit extreme for this young generation and definitely needs a balance.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-27 09:35
Edelweiss: a thought provoking article.
I would be more than happy if this article could trigger some thoughts about life. That's all a writer(even an amateur one)  could ever hope for.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-27 09:40
rich: the other day we talked about the same topic with my colleagues on the way to Jiaxing. is it a good thing or is it a positive development for kids tod
Great golden days have long gone. That thought might mean that we are belong to the older generation. But honestly, I wish my son could establish some similar memories about his childhood like I once had, not just toys, cartoons and computer games---not that all these are bad, but I wish he could know life is not just about that, there are more than that--perhaps just a wishful thinking.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-27 09:47
susiee: Children are less than before because of the one child policy.So our child has less playmates but more electronic toys,more time with TV shows and com
Not just one-child policy, but everything has changed. The street was safer and much less crowded in our childhood, and the neighours were much closer than we are now. I am the only child in my family, but I was free to play on the street and have many children to play with. But when my son came home, I dare not to let him out alone.
Reply lushanshan9010 2012-2-27 23:46
Even I become jealous when knowing that a four-year-old child has had soo many toys, which carrys me back on the days of my childhood, the only toy I could get out of my mom was a toy-girl made by mom with cloth at the cost of my crying for so long. Compared with 80'generation, how lucky children were born at the good times!
Reply corapaopao 2012-2-28 12:56
i have to say it's sooo much better than my age. As a member of post-80s generation and the single child brought up in big cities, i dont have so many chances of chasing butterflies or playing outside, neither do i have the electronic toys pretending a social community for me. What i had were plenty of stuffed bears or rabbits, and i would put them in line, let them listen to my speech, be my students or be my patients. All these role play games really need rich imagination and cultivate creativity (or not, i'm not quite sure about this actually, haha). When i recall those memories of being alone at home during winter or summer holidays, it's a little bit pathetic, i have to admit. However, the good thing is those experience unconciously foster my ability to sit quiet and read a nice book, immersing myself in a fictional world, where i can listen and share the ideas of the wits. The younger generation with all the technologically advanced devices or toys probably risk losing the fun while reading nice words and lines.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-28 17:13
lushanshan9010: Even I become jealous when knowing that a four-year-old child has had soo many toys, which carrys me back on the days of my childhood, the only toy I
So you are for "Good" and it certainly has it's point. But now I doubt there would even be an answer to this question. Everyone views it differently, and comes up with a different answer.
BTW, like you, my only toy in my childhood is also a baby doll. It kept me company for several years, until it's beyond any repair.
Reply bluephoebe 2012-2-28 17:20
corapaopao: i have to say it's sooo much better than my age. As a member of post-80s generation and the single child brought up in big cities, i dont have so many
Wow, very interesting. I liked to play teaching when I was a kid, but I don't have any stuffed toys, my "students" were my buddies. In each "lesson", I told them a made-up story. I still remember once I told them that the park we ofen played had interminalbe wildness where man-eater flowers and monsters lived---and everyone actually believed!
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