"Men and Women" is an everlasting topic.Whenever talking about this topic with others,I will get thrilled.What made me confused is :though men and women are physically and mentally different in many ways,they are indeed inclined to attractive to each other,at least they seldom urgue or fight with each other.In contrast,women like to perform "cat fights",there are full of jealousy and fault-finding in their world,which show less in men's world.Because of the opposite-attract,both men and women spare no effort to attempt the opposite sex.women usually care much about their appearances and clothes ,so they try all the ways to lighten their faces and reduce their weights to make theirselves more attractive ,when an ordinary-looking girl dresses her up one day ,turning out to be modern-dressed pretty woman ,u will probably think she is in love.Maybe that's true.Even she hasn't found a boyfriend,she's already had the person in her heart,it's her instinct to lure him.For men,appearance is not the priority for his charm,capability and temperament become more important.Sometimes,a man with ordinary look,medium size may gain many women's hearts,I suppose it is his fascination make him to be a ladykiller,a Mr.charm.Besides,it is a saying that women are liable to fall in love with men for emotion,while men are liable to show interets to women for their sex appeal,which from a gorgeous face and hot figure.I am not totally in favor of this view,even half of it maybe truth,I insist that both men and women are rationale creature,though the former tends to be more rationle than the latter,in the process of looking for a soul mate,there are many factors should be taken into account,but what they feel about that boy or girl is crucial,I guess.You can't explain the phenomenon which a man and woman just fall in love with the 1st time,though it happens every day,even scientist or they themselves can tell it.So it's useless to make a research about which kind of man or woman will be the most popular and charming one and make yourself be that one,just be yourself and wait someone to love "the real you".