These days, the death of Chen Lin,an once popular singer of China occupies the headlines of medias. I am not music devotee and don’t know much about the things happens in musical circles. Only after the breakthrouth of the news of her suicide , did I know her name and representative works. After surfing online to peer into ups and downs of her life, I begun to understand why she choose this rash way to end her life which will definitely serve as a bad model to youths. She was a poor lady who can’t control her destiny and felt desperation in the vortexes of social reality.

Some media disclosed details of her two pieces of failure marriages. Her first husband is Shen Yongge who studied in Japan before and successfully put a foot in music industry latterly. Chen Lin loved him much and poured all her feeling into her seemed cozy family but was hurt by Shen Yongge’s living with other female stars and the marriage ruptured at once. Only half a year ago, she met her second husband who is a Guitar player but it is heard through grapevine that her second marriage was not happy too and domestic violence preyed on her. In addition to her failure to surpass herself in music composition ,finally, tragedy happened. She jumped off from her intimate’s apartment and add an full stop to her journey of this world.

The jumping off of Chenlin reminds me of moth. We all know one of propensities of moth is phototropism which makes them to fly into dangerous fire without hesitation. The difference of them is ChenLin walked to death in grievance while moth is happy. But the common place of them is they are all live in dream, not in reality. We always mock the foolish of moth that do not learn the threaten of fire and is cheated by illusion of it. But are we human beings really more clever in distinction of real world and dream? No, I think we can’t do better. ChenLin was an example. Her grievance root from two aspects.First,She should know Amusement Industry is not a world suitable for righteous people to survive . This circle is full of cheating and betrayal. All stars are capricious and eternal love is nothing and not worth to be paid attention to. Anyone who pursue pure love would be setbacked from time to time.To some extent, pursuing noble love in this circles is akin to persuade prostitutes to cherish their fame.This is the reality of the Amusement Industry. In this land fraught with extramarital loves, how can you find true love.Shen Yongge is not an exception. Facing throngs of beauties, it is hard for him to keep his promise. Don’t blame him, it was really your fault. You were too naive. In music circles, as a female star, you must be brazened and can keep your chin up to face every disclosed scandalous news and swallow them as easy as possible. For example, if one day, your disgrace photos were posted online like the experience of Liu Jialing and A Jiao, you should hang loose before Medias. And you must learn after Zhao Baizhi, who helped to market sanitary napkin with a big smile after her disgrace photos were circulating madly online. If you were not brazened, please don’t set a foot in this circles.Second,she is too strict to herself in career. Every mountain has its peaks and valleys. Every person has its ups and downs. Anyone could’t stay on the top of his career for ever, this is another reality. As a singer, it is hard to be liked forever. Beyond  stars, the wives of emperors had been always abandoned after they were not beautiful. This is the law of our society. Know it before you decide to climbing up your pinnacle of career and you won’t be disappointed when standing on the tope of peak and finding nowhere to go.

From the death of Chenlin,we must draw a lesson that no matter how successful in career you are, only you cultivate a healthy mentality, can you  be called a successful person. or you would be a loser sooner or latter. I think an enriched life just like a Marathon. Those, know how to enjoy the process of running and put the result of life at the second place, would be happy. On the contrary, those, look forward to winning, must be unhappy.

Don’t be moth anymore! This is what I want to tell those who are willing to squeeze into music circles.

In the last analysis, I will write down the last words of Pavel korchagin,who is the protagonist of How Steel Is Tempered: The most precious thing for a person is life, and it is given to him only once. He must live a life like this: When thinking about his past, he would not regret for idling away his time and would not feel shameful for vulgar and mean deed. At the terminal of his life, he can say: I have contributed all my life, all my experiences to the grandest cause of the world--the fighting for the liberation of mankind.