pressure

saint1633

cottie: yeah.but the pressure and failure is not only a encouragement,but also it's a depression.

It turns out to become  a depression because you are entangled by those short-term emotions  ;  if you can look deep into the significance of those pressure and defeats , maybe , to you, they don't necessarily sound so negative .

saint1633

cottie: maybe I can feel better by considering all the affect of fail,good and bad.

When I was a teenager, I thought good is good, bad is bad; having defeated once seems  something doomed,  and  triumphs are  things  that I  should celebrate on despite the fact that in most cases they turn out to be too early  .... Now I know of the truth that  all things happened or happening are,  in fact , dialectical : Misfortune is embedded in fortune, and vice versa; in reality,  they  co-exist (禍兮福所依，福兮禍所伏)..it is only the wise who can discern what really  they are.

515681383

Take life easy,to deal with issue one by one,even it's small,confidence, I try to do everything well,one day ,you will find you get a lot .

wolf13

As I know if a person feels empty,he can not do things confidently.My suggestion--Try to enrich yourself by reading classics,by watching instructive movies,cultivate a good habit of life,develop some meaningful hobbies,care more about others,including the people you know or you may don't know,enjoy the common senery around you see but u you never perceive,love animals,read news around the world to broden your visions and expand your mind the last but not the least--concern all the human beings.Then u will change gradully and go beyond your limits rather than feels self-pity.

cottie

wolf13: As I know if a person feels empty,he can not do things confidently.My suggestion--Try to enrich yourself by reading classics,by watching instructive m

yeah. it is what i want to do. but i am always lack of patient to do this.

wuchangpei

illusion053: The same to me,i'm so nervous to do anything at work!I afraid to make something wrong!

Everyone grow up in the mistakes,you should thanks to the mistakes you had made,because you gained so many opportunities
to promote youself.