whether woman should sacrifice for their family

shamiya

just reading a biography of Hillary,i really admire her for her successful life -being a different woman. she gave up a lot to follow Bill Clinton.meanwhile she still chased her own career.onece she  stand by her husband but now she made her husband stand by her.honestly ,fewer women kept live for themselves .my parents and girl friends alwalys said ,as women ,they should take a easy job and married a good husband that's the happinese of women.they advise me to be a teacher and live with  my family .i don't know .i have nothing against being a teacher .i just don't wanna to live all my life to be a teacher .i hope to experience different life when i'm still young.maybe no boyfriend lead to this opinion .so now i still have to dig out my final choice .hope other girls or women can live as their willing.

shamiya

birding: yeah, take the seat.
old topic. Live your own life, for you will die your own death! This maybe i am a boy, i can take it easy!

yeah,old topic ,but like lose weight .it's always bother numerious women...i hope my Mr.Right appear early.maybe i can see the way clearly

shamiya

zoudewenhehe: very glad to read your topic here.

in current Chinese society, both the man and the woman take the important role, so we are fair! you can see that y

glad to receive ur reply.woman and man are equal.but actually someone in woman's heart ,they are in being protected position...that's the key point.

shamiya

danielrayslee: Don't use the word "sacrifice", which might be too depressing and kinda laying some pressures on the other half you are living with. As far

firstly,i wanna express my gratitude for ur attention and  express so many useful thoughts.i don't mind ur so called "offensive" view
at all.
then  in the eye of most chinese ,a woman's felicity is having a truely loved and responsible man and possesing an easy job(not a career to strive for).i have nothing aginist it.
However,as the divorce rate increase,many women used to rely ing on his husband failed to live independently .their husband are their whole which losing them means losing everything.
moreover ,siting about doing nothing at home gradually breed ridiculous thoughts and out-of-the-way behavoir which influence their affection.
anyway,many "srong woman" will abandon their career ,fame,position to run for their family sepecially after getting a baby. that's love!
in my opinion.it's the best happinese that a couple can share their commen and stive for it .of couse this phenomena is rare...